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From what I've read It's 5-6 inches long

Aroused or not aroused?

And to the guy who asked the question, don't base your confidence on the size of your penis. Differences in size matter some, but if your concerned about bringing a girl to orgasm, there's a lot more to worry about than the size of your penis. You always here some women say that the size doesn't matter, and you always think it's a lie to make guys out there with tiny johnsons feel better. My own sister said to me that she couldn't care less about the size of her bf's penis, and it's my own sister, she doesn't lie. Some girls might, but there's more than size to the mix.

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Want a true guage on the average size? Look between your legs!!! That is the best one you will find!

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only in the movies honey.

Um.......my hubby's close to that.....

Anyway, the average length of a hard penis is about 6". Keep in mind, that the people that "study" these things, get the numbers from the long & the short of things, literally. Then they average the number out (division and all that). So, "average" is just kinda an estimate.

Whether you're 4" long hard, or 10" long hard, as long as you make an honest effort to please a woman, usually, size won't matter.

Just remember, that the length of your penis has NOTHING to do with your sexual health or prowess. It's like breasts. Though a woman may have large breasts, that doesn't mean she's a tiger in bed, or will be a good mother (cuz breasts are for babies/milk ya know). It all depends on your confidence, abilities, and willingness to please and teach your lover how to please you.

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The official measurement is along the top of the erect penis (the part that faces your belly), not measured on the underside, beginning at the anus (in which case, I'm about ten inches!).

Are you saying you're 10 inches from base by belly to tip when erect?

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If you ask many women, they will be honest, so trust what it is you're hearing. It's not so much length as it is girth. Think of it this way, what would feel better to you? A tight vagina or a looser vagina? Same for us, we want to feel *something*. When women orgasm we 'clamp down' and girth is what most women are talking about when they mention size. Most of the average sex toys out there are not concentrating on length, they are designed usually for more width.

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I read somewhere on here (i think) that the average woman's vaginal canal is only about 4" long so a penis longer than that is pretty much just for show, if your going to look at just size and numbers. That being said, where does size become an issue (for me)? For length, it's oral sex, I have a bad gag reflex and I will try to take as much of a guy in as I can without tossing my cookies, so in that case "shorter" guys have teh upper hand. Flip side of this is during sex, wider guys have to give me more attention before we can have sex because if I'm not really ready and he tried to stick 3 inches in, well it's gonna hurt. Not that more foreplay is a bad thing! And as far as oral i make sure to make up for my gag reflex. So really size has NOTHING to do with pleasure. At least not for me. It just changes the game play a little. Make sense?

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Lol...of course not, dear, I'm saying I would be if measured in the 'wrong way! I'm average in every way....except my desire to please, that is.

Listen up boys, iha knows the way to a women's heart. That's all you ever need!

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Lol...of course not, dear, I'm saying I would be if measured in the 'wrong way! I'm average in every way....except my desire to please, that is.

OK, if iha was over 10" long, I guess his name would have to be "i*choking sound*". LMAO

And, iha, you are FAR from "average".

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I totally agree about the size thing. It really does not matter; it is about skill not size. I would almost rather not know the actual size and just feel it and wonder..lol! :P

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OK, if iha was over 10" long, I guess his name would have to be "i*choking sound*". LMAO

And, iha, you are FAR from "average".

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If you ask many women, they will be honest, so trust what it is you're hearing. It's not so much length as it is girth. Think of it this way, what would feel better to you? A tight vagina or a looser vagina? Same for us, we want to feel *something*. When women orgasm we 'clamp down' and girth is what most women are talking about when they mention size. Most of the average sex toys out there are not concentrating on length, they are designed usually for more width.

So what you're all saying is that you might prefer a guy that is average length, has nearly the girth of "big red" - or Goliath as SuzyP calls it (unless you are giving oral in which case smaller is better), is attentive to your needs and moods, LOVES foreplay as well as giving oral pleasure to his lady, and reads TooTimiid with her regularly for information and entertainment.

Or not?

Lil Librarian....

Not know and just feel it and wonder....Sounds like a good reason to have the lights off, or use a blind fold....

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So what you're all saying is that you might prefer a guy that is average length, has nearly the girth of "big red" - or Goliath as SuzyP calls it (unless you are giving oral in which case smaller is better), is attentive to your needs and moods, LOVES foreplay as well as giving oral pleasure to his lady, and reads TooTimiid with her regularly for information and entertainment.

Or not?

No, what we're saying is that the only thing that size affects is how we play the game, if he's smaller he's easier to deep throat, if he's bigger you use your hands too. If he's smaller not as much forplay is need (this doesn't mean you can skip it though) if he's bigger maybe a manual O before the big show (no pun intended). But the rest is dead on!

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So what you're all saying is that you might prefer a guy that is average length, has nearly the girth of "big red" - or Goliath as SuzyP calls it (unless you are giving oral in which case smaller is better), is attentive to your needs and moods, LOVES foreplay as well as giving oral pleasure to his lady, and reads TooTimiid with her regularly for information and entertainment.

Or not?

Lil Librarian....

Not know and just feel it and wonder....Sounds like a good reason to have the lights off, or use a blind fold....

I guess what I meant was, it's not a question that I ask. Some guys feel the need to tell and verify it is "enough". In and amoungst all the other thoughts swirling around my head during sex, a number associated to his penis size should not be one of them...I have enough problems...

At least I can joke about it, right?

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Suzy,

My post was meant to be kinda tongue in cheek ~ should have thrown in a couple smileys..... :(

From the guys side of the of the aisle.... I have to say that most of the guys that I've ever heard worrying about being "big enough" have no clue about how to treat a woman.... They are either very inexperienced (and thus just need to be enlightened), or their idea of foreplay is a slap on the ass, a boob grab, and maybe a couple minutes of hand action.. giving oral is not an option (but they sure expect to recieve it). They might just qualify for the status of "minute man" - you know, climb on and hump furiously for about a minute and then ask if it was good for you. Later they can be heard bragging to their buddies at the bar that "they pounded the shit outa that last week"...... or "I tore her up"..... Or worse... "she's lousey, just lays there... " Never realizing that they were done and gone before you even got started. :angry: I was that guy once - long long ago, but that was back when some guy named Regan was in the middle of his first term as President.....

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Sorry Lil_L.... My mind took a little walk at your comment.... went to having you blindfolded, or in a totally dark bedroom..... spending a bunch of time exploring your body... maybe take you up to the very edge and hold you there for a while.... Not let you see or touch me until I ..... uhhhhhh. :rolleyes: Getting back to the subjet in hand.

Well anyways, if a guy is telling you how big he is, he's probably thinking it'll pique your interest or impress you. Then later when he asks if he's "enough" he probably has no confidence in his ability to please you. Maybe he's comparing himself to what he sees in the porn movies, Or his ego needs some stroking and he needs a seperate entrance for it.

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Suzy,

My post was meant to be kinda tongue in cheek ~ should have thrown in a couple smileys..... :(

From the guys side of the of the aisle.... I have to say that most of the guys that I've ever heard worrying about being "big enough" have no clue about how to treat a woman.... They are either very inexperienced (and thus just need to be enlightened), or their idea of foreplay is a slap on the ass, a boob grab, and maybe a couple minutes of hand action.. giving oral is not an option (but they sure expect to recieve it). They might just qualify for the status of "minute man" - you know, climb on and hump furiously for about a minute and then ask if it was good for you. Later they can be heard bragging to their buddies at the bar that "they pounded the shit outa that last week"...... or "I tore her up"..... Or worse... "she's lousey, just lays there... " Never realizing that they were done and gone before you even got started. :angry: I was that guy once - long long ago, but that was back when some guy named Regan was in the middle of his first term as President.....

Glad you've become 'enlightened'.

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So what you're all saying is that you might prefer a guy that is average length, has nearly the girth of "big red" - or Goliath as SuzyP calls it (unless you are giving oral in which case smaller is better), is attentive to your needs and moods, LOVES foreplay as well as giving oral pleasure to his lady, and reads TooTimiid with her regularly for information and entertainment.

Or not?

Lil Librarian....

Not know and just feel it and wonder....Sounds like a good reason to have the lights off, or use a blind fold....

I'm answering from my viewpoint, that of the women I talk to, and that of the discussions we've had here before. *Most* women prefer girth over length. Some women like length, but the vagina's nerve endings are concentrated at the opening to the vagina. Women like to have something of girth to clamp down on during penetration and orgasm. That's just how we are.

Men seem to think that women are fixated on length when if you ask most women what they prefer they will say girth over length. It feels better.

And no, big red and goliath personally for me are too uncomfortable.

And I'm lucky that I have a man that loves foreplay, giving oral pleasure, and reads and has contributed to the forums here.

Here's a few articles when I googled girth vs length on penis size.

Girth vs Length

Girth Vs Length 2

Girth vs Length 3

Here's a poll, should be interesting to see what the ladies say.

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Suzy,

My post was meant to be kinda tongue in cheek ~ should have thrown in a couple smileys..... :(

From the guys side of the of the aisle.... I have to say that most of the guys that I've ever heard worrying about being "big enough" have no clue about how to treat a woman.... They are either very inexperienced (and thus just need to be enlightened), or their idea of foreplay is a slap on the ass, a boob grab, and maybe a couple minutes of hand action.. giving oral is not an option (but they sure expect to recieve it). They might just qualify for the status of "minute man" - you know, climb on and hump furiously for about a minute and then ask if it was good for you. Later they can be heard bragging to their buddies at the bar that "they pounded the shit outa that last week"...... or "I tore her up"..... Or worse... "she's lousey, just lays there... " Never realizing that they were done and gone before you even got started. :angry: I was that guy once - long long ago, but that was back when some guy named Regan was in the middle of his first term as President.....

Oh honey I know you were kidding. :) Your living proof men can evolve! :)

Aiden, as he said he was joking. "Goliath" and "Big Red" are in fact the exact same toy and while you may not enjoy the toy, please don't diss ours.

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Oh honey I know you were kidding. :) Your living proof men can evolve! :)

Aiden, as he said he was joking. "Goliath" and "Big Red" are in fact the exact same toy and while you may not enjoy the toy, please don't diss ours.

I love BIG Red! And my SO says Ms Puss is the tightest puss he has been in. I guess she just loves to get stretched and filled. But I also love the feeling of SO and he is average or maybe a bit more than average, but not 10-inches! I think this shows how versatile a vagina can be.

I actually think a woman's body in general can be adaptable. Think about anal - most people have to work up to this, starting with smaller toys or whatever, before moving on to a penis or larger toys.

Since this is posted in the oral sex category, I would point out that there are different ways to please a man orally depending on size. Like has been said, you can use your hand or not, etc. And SO says I am the first woman to deep throat him. I think this, too, is something I have adapted to be able to do since there was a time that I had a very high gag reflex.

Face it, we woman are amazing :P and can get great pleasure from their man no matter what his length or girth.

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