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What Do You Prefer: Trimmed, Shaved Or Natural?


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Posted 29 December 2008 - 06:13 PM

I just love it when my wife shaves her pussy. I love performing oral sex on her anyway, but when it's shaved, I can get off, just licking her, it makes me that hot
That said, I know of guys who can't stand a shaved pussy. Says it makes them uncomfortable.
Different strokes for different folks.
I know if I could choose, I'd go for shaved first, trimmed second.

A shaved pussy is a huge turn on for me. But what about you other guys?

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Posted 29 December 2008 - 07:07 PM

I'm not a guy, but as a bi-sexual woman, I think I can weigh in too!

I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE shaved...totally bald or a teeny, tiny landing strip. I do this to myself, and if I were to ever have another female lover, I would want it to be the same!

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Posted 29 December 2008 - 07:25 PM

I'm bi-curious and an avid adult film watcher........so I hope my opinion is welcomed.

I love looking at a shaved woman's pussy. Trimmed can be nice, depending on the care and how it's trimmed, but I prefer to see (and be) shaved.


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Posted 29 December 2008 - 07:37 PM

I honestly think there is nothing more gross than a hairy muff lol... sorry if that offends some people but... ewww lol

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Posted 30 December 2008 - 01:25 AM

Trimmed really does matter how it's done.

Being Bi myself I'll vote for shaved, trimmed very short, than full head of hair.
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Posted 30 December 2008 - 05:46 AM

Shaved
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Posted 30 December 2008 - 06:09 AM

Has to be shaved. I never knew the pleasure of performing oral until my current and lasting partner of 2 years. It was always something that made me feel kinda ill. But.... I think I've been able to pin-point it. See, I have a HUGE problem with hair. It just makes me feel horribly sick at the sight of hair, no longer connected to a body... if there is hair in the bath when I come to wash it out, I just can't touch it. It makes me gag....

But my GF is generally completely shaven... and the feel of her bald pussy against my face does fuckin wonders for me!! My cock is ALWAYS rock hard when I'm sucking and licking her clit, but as I said, until my most recent GF I never did oral. I know she's rather pleased about this ;)

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Posted 30 December 2008 - 08:53 AM

Speaking for my hubby he goes for trimmed, from my ass to te top of my lips is bald and the rest is short on top.

I only stated doing this about a year ago but he loves it!!!! Me too :lol:

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Posted 30 December 2008 - 09:17 AM

Shaved for both male and female....but he likes me to keep it all shaved except for a tiny, narrow spot in center and I have to admit it's kind of hot to grab and tug on that! ;)

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Posted 30 December 2008 - 09:37 AM

I preferred shaved, or trimmed. There's nothing like the feeling of a freshly shaved pussy when having sex. The feeling of bare skin to skin contact is electric.

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Posted 30 December 2008 - 10:26 AM

waxed/shaved I love the look and feel of a smooth pussy

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Posted 30 December 2008 - 10:57 AM

Hmmm well as far as what I like... I guess on myself. If I were brave enough I would get waxed, underneath and leave a closely trimmed area in the front. I am not brave so I trim the front and shave underneath and in between...

Now what I like on a GUY! (not that you asked!) I like natural! Stubble on a guy is VERY irritating! The hair is nice, soft and stimulating. Not to mention very masculine!

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Posted 30 December 2008 - 08:39 PM

I, as a bi-woman, love trimmed or shaved.

Now my SO, he doesn't like the way I smell after I shave, so I don't. I keep it trimmed, but that's as close to shaved as I get. :) He's more into how it smells and tastes rather than how it looks.

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Posted 30 December 2008 - 10:25 PM

Me? Shaved, but with a well groomed patch up top.

Him? Wild and natural, just like I like my men!!
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Posted 30 December 2008 - 11:50 PM

Speaking for my husband; He likes Bald, a landing strip thats cropped very close, and a narrow triangle pointing the way.












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Posted 31 December 2008 - 02:38 PM

My SO prefers it shaved and I love being shaved as well. For him either trimmed or shaved is fine.

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Posted 31 December 2008 - 04:15 PM

I prefer shaved.

Wife doesnt like it when I shave.

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Posted 31 December 2008 - 05:04 PM

Trimmed. As long as the hair doesn't get in the way of me giving a bj, it's all good. I don't care much for totally shaved..Not my thing.
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Posted 05 January 2009 - 09:09 AM

Speaking for my husband; He likes Bald, a landing strip thats cropped very close, and a narrow triangle pointing the way.


Your husband and I think very much alike....

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Posted 13 January 2009 - 09:54 PM

I Love Pussy...bushy, trimmed and bald. I have trimmed and shaved for past girlfriends (BFMW), but that was then. Since marrying, there has been no "barbering" in my life, and there has been no trimmed or bald pussy...boy do I miss variety. And like I said, I am know to stay between my wifes legs until she has atleast two orgasms. As she once told me, "boy are you determined". My response was that "the joy is in giving!"

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Posted 13 January 2009 - 10:06 PM

I prefer my men natural. I shaved for an ex once, and I really enjoyed the breeze!

So, here's something I've always wondered. When women do just a short trim instead of shaving....do guys get rug burn?

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Posted 13 January 2009 - 11:26 PM

I Love Pussy...bushy, trimmed and bald. I have trimmed and shaved for past girlfriends (BFMW), but that was then. Since marrying, there has been no "barbering" in my life, and there has been no trimmed or bald pussy...boy do I miss variety. And like I said, I am know to stay between my wifes legs until she has atleast two orgasms. As she once told me, "boy are you determined". My response was that "the joy is in giving!"

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Posted 14 January 2009 - 12:03 AM

Ladies...

PLEASE, shave your legs, your armpits and your pussy.

In return, I promise not to go down on you with a days growth on my face.

Thanks

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Posted 14 January 2009 - 12:06 PM

In return, I promise not to go down on you with a days growth on my face.

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Posted 14 January 2009 - 07:37 PM

My wife usually shaves, but shaved, landing strip, or fuzzy is all OK.

It's been many years since licking a busy, but I think I'd be fine with it.

On me, I shaved once for a vasectomy operation, and hated the feel of it. Since then I leave it alone and the wife hasn't really complained about it.

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Posted 14 January 2009 - 08:14 PM

I really enjoy it when my wife shaves. She's never done the landing strip, which is fine with me. I love the look and feel of her pussy when it's smooth.

Now, don't get me wrong ... I'll play with her pussy whether or not it's shaved, it's just that I prefer it shaved. ;)
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Posted 24 January 2009 - 01:29 AM

I prefer my men natural. I shaved for an ex once, and I really enjoyed the breeze!

So, here's something I've always wondered. When women do just a short trim instead of shaving....do guys get rug burn?


Hey, mariemarie! I noticed none of the guys answered your question! I'm not male, so I can't answer from first hand experience, but I was talking about this with a good friend of mine just the other day. His take on the matter? Too short and it gets prickly. "Prickly" just doesn't sound too inviting, which means that yeah, I assume they do. In his opinion, shaved clean and pretty provides the "ultimate entree."
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Posted 24 January 2009 - 01:56 AM

Hey, mariemarie! I noticed none of the guys answered your question! I'm not male, so I can't answer from first hand experience, but I was talking about this with a good friend of mine just the other day. His take on the matter? Too short and it gets prickly. "Prickly" just doesn't sound too inviting, which means that yeah, I assume they do. In his opinion, shaved clean and pretty provides the "ultimate entree."


Yeah! That's what I was thinking. I've been messing around with the ol' pube-do lately. Right now I've got a mask of shortly trimmed fuzz on the front, but I'm shaved from about mid-clit to back. Got a first-time with a new partner coming up in a couple months, and I don't want to freak him out with a bald cooch if that's not what he's into. I still have a little while to think about it, though.

Oh, and just for the record, I do have a job and a life and I go to school full time on top of it. I'm not just sitting around shaving my pubes into Escher-like optical illusions just for shits and giggles. But...it will be my first new partner in 15 years, so I'm giving this a lot of thought. :)

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Posted 24 January 2009 - 02:37 AM

I like the way you phrased that--"Escher-like optical illusions." Sorry, but that DID make me giggle a little on the inside.

Anyhow, congrats on your guy! I hope it all goes well for you. ;) I think it's great that you're beginning your prep now! That way, you are afforded the time for hair to grow back so you CAN try new styles out and whatnot. I'm supposed to meet up with "Sir" in a few days and have begun my own prep, so I feel I can relate to you. He and I had that conversation mentioned previously long enough ago that I had decided to go on ahead and just shave it all off to give my body time to adjust. Well, that was my first time (I used to keep it just well trimmed), and my skin was NOT happy! :( So, I let it grow for about a couple of weeks and went and got it waxed two days ago. Brazilian. That, too, being a first for me. I can proudly say, though, that I neither screamed, cursed, nor cried. How I managed that? I have no idea. Someone on here had said "Just grin and bear it," and that's precisely what I did. I'm just hoping my sore spots will be healed by the end of next week!

About that conversation, here are some more excerts to give you some ideas (this guy's obviously given it A LOT of thought--and if he's out there and sees this, Sorry!):


me:How do you prefer the lady hairs to be trimmed?
Sir:I prefer bare.
me: haha I didn't know if you were into the eccentric colors. I know where that dye is sold. :P
Sir: I suppose a little strip of bright pink would be sexy
3/4" wide
stops half inch above the fold
2.5 inches max height.
me: You forgot the length of the hair itself.
Sir: sorry, you're correct - trim to 1.25" max length
me: And min length?
Sir: half inch - too short and it gets prickly.
the rest needs to be shaved clean and pretty for the ultimate entree
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Posted 24 January 2009 - 11:29 AM

"Someone on here had said "Just grin and bear it," and that's precisely what I did. I'm just hoping my sore spots will be healed by the end of next week!"

You shouldn't really be that sore afterwords. And by sore spots, what do you mean? If you have any bruises, burns, or scabs, then the wax they are using is to hot. That's not suppose to happen.

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