Still learning

Try with an object of similar shape but not a banana in case it breaks. Try taking a breath in before you go past the throat, give some deep pleasing then back out to breathe. Practicing will hopefully give you the chance to discover how to breathe.

"Any serious advice you may have would be greatly appreciated. Thanks." There is no age to start but not starting is a waste. You need to actually feel, touch, caress, stimulate yourself,take the time to try different techniques (speed, pressure, motion, areas) to know what works best. Don't limit yourself to one trick even if it worked good, try other things. Try your clitoris, breasts / nipples, g-spot, anus. Drop your reservations, you are alone with yourself and learning,or you will miss out on your own pleasures for a long time until someone does it for you, if you feel like trusting that guy ..... how long would it take?? Even if you are with someone DO try and discover yourself, it will enhance YOUR sex life and in return your relation's sex life - a huge benefit. Use toys if / when you feel ready. Shop away from home if you are shy about it. Go online and learn about the female anatomy - YOURS, it's worth it. As for having a third, don't foce yourself if you don't feel comfortable doing it. Empty your bladder before you start exploring. By the way, if you just emptied it, feel real good but feel like you need to pee so soon, don't bother with the washroom, it's because you are on the edge of something BIG!! as for your orgasm. So you know your bladder was recently emptied but feel like peeing, ride the sensation - what comes next will be memorable but it may be very WET. If so be proud and happy of who you are as you will have discovered something precious about yourself sexually. Never rush an outcome, just enjoying the moments.

I would tell but wait until you feel "safer" he is good for you. Also when things start taking a turn. At that point when things come closer to have sex make sure you are looked after properly. That means the guy you are with will not just ram it in for his pleasure anda bit ensure you are well lubricated (use lubricant if necessary) It doesn't matter how careful he will be, this will hurt, this will be the first time a penis stretches your vagina afterall. He can start stimulating you with his fingers. If he is intimidated by the task let him know you want to follow through when ready, and during the moment use your hand to touch him too. What else can I say? Well, if you know your body and its responses it will make things easier.

To turn the tables there are women who love a man biting their nipples, carefully. I met one years ago who would ask me to everytime I had my mouth on. It gave her more sensations.

I'd like to have it more, everywhere except balls LOL

Light biting on the shaft

Any possibility some agencies try to switch girls into porn? Food for thought. Research well first.

OH YES I HAD! I was in high school and at that age guys get erections all the time, for no reason at all. I had those annoying underwear that let my penis slide out on the side by the leg and I get up to go to the front, not noticing i grew a few inches, but most of the class noticed, and the teacher. She was red, all were laughing, me placing it to be less visible. It was actually pointing straight to the front, you'd have to be blind not to notice.

I have a few but one of the is very short and to the point. I have wanted to meet a woman who can orgasm from breast / nipples stimulation, no matter what goes on. Always been a breasts lover, and she would get LOTS of attention on hers whoever makes me that lucky guy, so she would be lucky too. I don't get tired of breasts. Another one is to be able to walk up to any woman and be able to enjoy their breasts and they let me. Silly but it's mine. Another one is to receive deepthroat. I have more but enough for now. he he he

And the Good Lord witnessed it all. LOL

I believe in being faithfulness, even if I believe finding many others attractive. SIL did the right thing. On one side of the coin I've been exposed to many stories of women looking for sex because their SO don't give them sex at all. Either they have it somewhere else or don't want it at all. They stay because of family or security. Not a pretty / happy picture.

I am sure you heard of doggie style. You being on top but facing his feet. He can grab your butt, pull down on your hips to push you deeper, have your breasts from behind if he is propped up. And you, you can reach his balls, shaft, increase his sensations. At the same time you can tell when he gets closer as his balls get tighter. you can slow down or stop if you want to extend the play. He sits on a chair and you "ride" him, facing him or the other way. You sit on the washer and put in in spin mode, out balance for motion. You put your hands on the counter, table, etc, and he gets in from behind. And like above, go online, look in books.

To be more clear on the last, I mean this is addressed to women, shed some light on this for themen here.

Just a rhetorical question for men in general: Why would a woman want / need / have to know this? Just being a woman who likes knowing and categorizing or because of some interest she has in him? How about asking straight out .... I know, not tactful, too open, etc.

She loves when she doesn't have to do the work but also being in control on top, placing her hips to make my penis reach in places at her pace, easy and slow. It's amazing that she can come easily that way. Okay, tried it, couldn't wait to. She was horny all right earlier now she had to go and I still think about repeating it again some time, not right away so it doesn't become routine. Details??? Okay, here it goes. She had not been on top in a little while, I was too happy to give her all I can so as she was washing dishes I came behind her, hands on her hips and caressing her, whispering how I miss her being on top, held her tight a few seconds and she said she has dishes to do before she goes, at her place. I said I know, that's okay, I would have done them all anyway and walked away. Not long after she came in the living room where I went to watch some TV and she had this look on her face, asking if I was serious. It didn't take long to strip when I id I'd love to do it right now. If you read before I can tell when she is horny, I can smell her and I love it, and no panties. She had not done this in a while but she gave more some oral using her hand too. Lovely. She was about to get on top but I made her wait, had her enjoy some maunal g spot and vagina play. She didn't let me take her all the way and she stopped me. I used all the pilllows I could find to prop myself up and as she went on me I was able to suck her breasts, easier to reach her hips to follow her movement, sometimes forcing her all the way down on me but mostly lettting her control the fun. She didn't want her clitoris touched but that's okay. I must have been different because she asked if I was okay. I just nooded and told her I just love it all and I feel so good inside her. While a woman lovres a compliment she knows I do love how she feels inside. She stopped, deep and asked me to describe. I could not, I almost came from the pressure LOL. After she lifted herself I described what it feels like and that I can feel how wet she is. She reached my shaft to feel me as she continued and that brought me to the point. I came first but I staywed hard enough to make her orgasm. I felt her wetter, or was it me?? Then she had to get ready. I finished the dishes enjoying her smell on me before showering. My balls are hurting from the release now LOL but I still want more of it.