give him a blow job and start rubbing a finger around his anus if he enjoys it slowly put in one well lubed finger very slowly. He enjoys it enough then he might be ready to explore more with you.
That women are the ones that are slow and take there time in sex and men just want to cum and get it over with.
I am the one in our relationship that usually slows things down.
Welcome to the site and women's sex drive increases and a man's can decrease with age. Health issues make it worse. Not that don't want to just don't feel like it really. Some can't from no sex drive with no erection. Sad really.
My wife had back surgery 2 years ago. Plus she has degenerative arthritis which is getting worse and has nerve pain in right hip. Can any one suggest some positions for us. I also have bad knees. I know not making it easy.