sexykitty

WOW talk about going from rags to riches lol.....you went from almost nothing to more in one day then most get in a week......Lucky you and hey if she awakes at 3 am and wants you just give it your all

I am not set up on here to send or recieve Pms or Emails but if I were and someone was to send some type of "offer" I would think that its flattering in a way that they found what I had to say interesting enough to Pm me but if it was a offer for sex I would think how many others have you used the same line on or sent emails to waiting to get one to just say yes. I would think its sad that they had to turn to a sex talk forum to find someone.....or find sex......there are sites for that......not this one.....also if there are problems which is leading them to lack of having sex with SO then why not search for help not avoid it. To many people like to give up and not try to work at things. I think if someone has something to say or ask me then they can do it on the board no need for me to have PMs and I guess Im lucky i dont if some are not using them for the way they are suppose to.

This is a good question......after thinking I would have to answer my temper which at times is hard for me to control......taking people and what they say or do the wrong way without really giving them a chance......and I would like to change the things I say or do being take the wrong way......went around with some on here about a topic which wasnt ment to be taken in a bad way and glad thats over.......physical I guess I would like a breast lift. Just a quick pick me up so I can be perky as younger years

My EX was I think the biggest so far........not that i measured but he did fill me......I enjoy that everytime we did it it was as if it was my first time,,,,,now I have had some since him that are good.....but just doesnt (or didnt) feel the same as far as being tight full fit I have never been with a girl but so no boobs except my own for me........38DDs on this gal and been told by my sex partners a nice hand full. Only one guy I was with said that he has been with a girl with bigger....well he claims bigger but 2 things I found out number one she is shorter then I so same size boobs could look bigger on shorter gals.....second hers were FAKE not that I hate a good pair of fakes but lets face it she could go braless and I cant......no matter what i try i cant pass thinking i could use a lift. Oh well thats just me haha

Ok for those of you who dont know I had broken up with my bf cause he was way to jealous which was causing problems. Now single and looking......had a hard time at first.....thought I wouldnt meet anyone for a bit there......but that has since changed and although i like dating again the problem is wanting sex and not being able to control myself.....once he makes a move im done.....cant say no......I NEVER slept around like this maybe cause I always only had one bf at a time and now dating a few end up having sex with just about all "dates" I dont want to be used and im starting to think that some are just interestd cause the know im giving it up pretty fast.....turns out when we talk the one im with knows so and so and I think thats how word is getting around. I know there are a few gals here that have had thier share of lovers.....so how did you handle it? How did you date and have sex but not come off as being a easy slut? I have to admit I couldnt hold off from sex with the first few dates cause they were HOT but im really trying to control myself and hold on to the goods a bit longer.....as an adult I never thought I would be asking for advice on this topic seems like something others went through in those High School days when sex was new and you couldnt get enough im sure we all knew some girls in school that were "friendly" so to say. Bottom line how can you date and have sex but still get the respect you deserve? I never had a bad rep and dont want to start now......I dont want to be known as the town tramp so help please.I dont want to be used but then again I dont want to stop having sex, Have a nice day and keep posting!!!!!!! SEXYKITTY

Thanks for the feedback........Like I said I have not come across this yet but at least I know what to do/say if it ever does happen to me and the man Im with. I understand about talking to them and keeping age in mind.....but what would you do if you explain it in a informative manner and you hear the child talking about it with friends etc,,,,,,I am referring to a time when I heard a child comment are they going to have sex now just because he seen to people kiss.......and this same child also made remarks to that affect in his classroom because he liked a girl......HE WAS ONLY 6 IMO way to young to be thinking of gilrfriends......Im sure he picked up all his info from t.v. and hearing certain people around him that dont really watch what they say. Again this isnt my child and I have no control or right to say whats wrong or right for him....but I just felt that the way this six yr old was acting was a bit out of line.I have heard this child comment on girls as in saying they are hot mamas and the ones were old enough to be mamas.......I wonder what this child will be like when he gets older.

I just posted this question to Mikayla under the topic about kids and hiding the sex toys. That inturn made me want to find out from the others here that have a child/children how do you really have a good night of wild sex with the kids home? I myself do not have a child and since some of you know I am dating again I am sure I will come across a man who may have a kid(s) so I would like info before I cross that bridge. What if you want to have some kinky sex other then in the bedroom behind a locked door? How can you really enjoy it and get into it worring that if youre to loud the kids will wake up......or walk in on you? I know the sure fire answers only do it behind a locked door or get a babysitter and have a wild night.....but what if you cant get a sitter or you just have that feeling and you just want to have sex? Im thinking the more rugrats running around the harder it would be to have alone time either with your SO or even with just yourself..........I would just like a heads up on how to get around this incase I have to someday..........Right now its so easey just to fuck where I want to and play when I want to etc.....just thinking what my sexlife would be like if I couldnt be so free..........thanks to all in advance for posting. Have a nice day and keep posiing. Kitty

With so many toys im sure you knew this day would come. I cant offer any advice just wanted to say sounds like having kids ( or in your case Mikayla only one child) makes it tough at some point to have your own life.....meaning being able to have your sex toys and having to make sure you hide them and/or put them away after a long night of fun. From past posts you have said how you and hubby get it on.....long nights of wild sex etc...so I was just curious as to how does one go about this with a child home or children? I know you wait til the kid(s) are asleep but what if they wake up and youre not done.......what if they ask what was that noise I heard from your room........or what if they walk in on the action? Just curious........dont let past topics keep you from posting back to me have a nice day and keep posting Kitty

Lost, First let me say Welcome to you and glad that you are posting here. Now as for your topic.....If I were you I would have a good talk with your gal and see what is going on. Maybe its like that book "He just isnt in to you" but instead of the he this time its a she.......Seems like you are way into being with her and she just doesnt have the same feelings or she would return your calls no matter what not just when SHE is ready to. Men have done this to women forever.......and if It ever happend you any of you gals out there you know what I am talking about.........they say they will call and then dont.........they get off knowing that youre sitting at home by the phone waiting for them to throw you a bone and grace you with a call from them.......this has happend to me but back in school........oh those teenage years.......Lost its time your chick grows up and stops playing games especially with your heart and your feelings..........dont put up with it or she will continue to walk all over you............sounds like a player to me!!! have a nice day and keep posting Kitty

I started a topic on this subject awhile back and received very good advice on it. I was with a guy who i thought was being jealous but after explaining things here I seen from others point of view that his remarks etc.....was not being jealous that it was his insecurity about himself that was causing us problems. He is now my ex and im happy to be free of all that drama......jealous in anyway is not good......like one post said we all my look at someone and wish we were like them in some way but if its not something that you dwell on then thats normal but if it takes over your everyday life and its something you cant get past then its not normal and not good. I NEVER gave my ex and reason to be what he called "jealous" he never had a reason not to trust me.......faithful til the end......his problem was if others looked at me as in checking me out or talked to me other then a friendly talk he thought I would dump him on the spot and go for them........all those fights about it all that wasted time........look where it got him.......if he was more confident and secure im sure we would still be together today cause he had many good points but that one major fault just killed our relationship. Just my view on this.......maybe something to keep in mind if you feel jealous of your SO next time........think twice especially before you react and say something especially if it may start a fight. You really have to think am I being jealous cause of what they are doing etc.....or am I just being jealous cause im the insecure one and the other people around seem to be more then I am. there is nothing more sexy then someone that is secure with themself Have a nice day and happy posting to all Kitty

Its funny I just read an article about this same thing only it was the man who was to quiet in bed and his wife thought that he didnt enjoy the sex and wasnt really interested anymore......and the advice given was to start to ask questions cause there could be a number of reasons that a person tends to be so quiet in bed.....the more questions asked the more they will tell and maybe feel more comfortable in making some noise. I am however not a sceamer but a moaner.....When i am with a guy he KNOWS that i am enjoying it or not.....i am not affraid to say NO not there or yes thats it or a little to the left etc.....I would rather tell him and have a great O then have to fake it (which i have done a time or two) and so far no man has taken offense to me telling him how to work his magic...and once he knows just what to do LOOK OUT mmmmmmm.

Katprr That sounds like a very nice club that you both went to. That is the type that espcially for a first timer a women should go to with her man. Some can be very uncomfortable as far as the crowd and the dancers go.......you know that not so upper class type of place......now as far as a lap dance in a place like that who knows what goes on in the backroom.......When i was with my now ex-bf i would go to the clubs as well and the ones he went to were on the good side one here isnt so great and thats the one we stayed away from after our first visit in fact it may have been closed for violating certain laws here......But like you said if guys didnt look then what? They arent dead......and neither are we wink wink......Glad to have your view on this topic I think it really will help Hotpony with the female point of view he was looking for.

Well from reading your post Gabby82 yes there is a problem here but its not with YOU its with him. I just could not get over the fact that he asked you to find out what you like and want sexually and now that you did he wont try it with you. Maybe it isnt "his thing" but he asked and you replied so he should atleast try and see if it maybe something he would like or do for YOU. To me he seems very onesided......when it comes to sex and pleasing you.......that "roll over and spread them" remark tells me he only thinks of his own pleasure......I think a good talk is in order here......he has been away as you said so you both have to get back into the swing of things, get to know eachother all over again, maybe start with a date night but only after you had a non-threating talk with him about this situation. You deserve just as much pleasure as he does and the statement of you "not being good in bed" was just uncalled for......if he (and you) feel the need for some improvement then both parties should be willing and open for improvement to take place.....He seems unwilling so how can you make things better if he wont try? As far as him looking at porn so much.....well since he was away thats all he had and now it seems that is what he is use to......porn is not a bad thing as long as its not taking away from the other person.....as long as its not the main reason for one to become sexually aroused....it should enhance not take away.......you offered to watch some with him and he refused.....again that is something that you have to talk to him about......sounds to me like he maybe having a hard time adjusting to family life etc......after being back.......im sure after a good talk and in time things will get better.......just remember communication is key......and like the other post stated sex is key to a happy marriage.....so keep working at it and keep us posted

Having sex is not the only form of cheating.....there is also emotional cheating or an emotional affair.....if you find yourself sharing more with a member of the opposite sex other then you SO or you find that you would rather spend time with someone other then your SO......a simple lap dance is fine no harm but if you go to the strip club every chance you get and dont give your attn. to your SO like you use to then there is a problem........NOT SAYING THAT YOU HAVE DONE THIS.......just saying as with a man on his computer all the time for cybersex or looking at porn all the time instead of focusing his time and attn. on his SO there is a problem and a lack of something in the relationship and communication is needed to get to the reason. Nothing wrong with going to the strip club once in awhile and getting a lap dance as well......as long as its look dont touch then its all good.......Maybe your SO would like to go with you and get one as well......ever ask if she is into that? Just some views from KITTY.......Have a nice day and happy posting to all

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