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Absolutely!! Having his thick, hard cock rammed as deeply inside me as possible when I come is the ultimate for me!! I really need something to come on, if you know what I mean... even when he's giving me head, if he doesn't shove his fingers or something up inside me when I come my orgasm is only a fraction of the intensity I feel with some kind of penetration. Vaginal penetration is sweetest and most desired, but when he makes me come with a large toy or his cock up my ass the intensity of my orgasms is beyond description. And btw, ladylove, like you I find the intense pleasure of feeling my man coming inside me an irresistible force... his orgasm almost always triggers a responsive orgasm in me... the feel of his cock swelling and driving into me so hard as he prepares to come, then the eruption inside me while his lovely large, muscular body convulses on me is irresistible!! Penetration. Mmmmm.

Of course fingering is a variety of anal sex! You have to start somewhere. A girl can't go from complete anal virgin to a full-hard cock without some acclimation. Every woman I've talked to who enjoys anal sex started with a finger... either her own in a solo session, or a lover's finger that natural course of lovemaking. My first anal sex experience was when my lover was licking my pussy (very expertly, I must say), and his fingertips were tickling me deliciously all around my vagina and perineum. One finger strayed a bit farther south and the pleasure I felt as he touched my anus was wonderful. He apparently realized how much it turned me on, and he then slowly pushed his finger up my ass. I came instantly... a very very very hot and intense orgasm!

Missionary is my ideal position, my bread-and-butter always-orgasm position, but I have a very deep fondness/fetish for being fucked from behind. My husband prefers to come inside me in missionary most of the time, and I have to admit I am able to enjoy his orgasms better in missionary than if he's behind me. There are varieties of missionary, of course, and run the gamut most times... but best is when he holds himself up on straight arms and I spread my legs wide, knees up, and hook my heels under his ass to pull him into me. Yum. Rear entry gives the deepest penetration, which is divine. I kneel on the bed with my face down on the mattress so he can fuck me as hard as he wants. I can't move much in this position, which I like... I just have to kneel there and take it. This is our best position for anal sex, btw. It's even hotter with my wrists bound behind my back. Our other favorite is bend-over doggie. I stand beside the bed (or his armchair, or the dining room table, or the hood of his car... ) and bend over. I have to wear high heels for this position so my pussy is the right height and angle for his cock. But in this position I can move my hips a lot more than when I'm kneeling, so I can work my pussy on his cock. VERY intense orgasms for me in this position.

Sunday, you underestimate the stretchiness and resilience of a woman's vagina... it's designed to push a baby out of, you know, and babies are quite a bit bigger than any penis.

When I first became sexually active as a young single woman it wasn't at all "slutty" for a girl to have lots of partners. I had sex with a goodly number of men, and sampled a wide variety of penis sizes. My first lover, my boyfriend at the time, had a fairly slender average-length cock (I didn't know it at the time, of course... it was my first cock and it felt wonderful!), which was perfect for a nervous virgin's first intercourse. I had several subsequent lovers who were of average size, and that experience made me think that all cocks were pretty much the same size, and the differences in pleasure I experienced from one man to another were based on how into the guy I was, and how good his thrusting technique was. And it's true... some guys know how to fuck, and others don't... the motion of the ocean theory. But then I had a lover who had the right moves but he also had a much larger than average cock, about 8" long and quite thick...and my mindset had to change. Up til then, my orgasms involved my lover thrusting his cock inside me while he or I rubbed my clit. The first time I had sex with Mr. Big, the pleasure his cock gave my vagina was so good I didn't even think to rub my clit, I was just overwhelmed by the wonderful fullness inside me, and the pleasure of feeling his cock move my insides around deep inside me, and without expecting it I had my first purely vaginal orgasm. I had my second purely vaginal orgasm about 3 minutes later, in harmony with and stimulated by his orgasm. Mr. Big and I didn't stay together all that long... great sex with a well-hung guy can't make up for other deficiencies. But thanks to him, I discovered that to me, size does matter... and it was like my vagina had been asleep until he woke it up. And it's been awake ever since! After him, I found I could have vaginal orgasms with any competent lover, as long as his cock was at least average size. I just can't come on a smaller-than-average cock without clit stimulation. I also found that really long, slender cocks don't do it for me, either... more than about 9 inches of cock makes deep penetration uncomfortable sometimes. And yes, I started carrying a tape measure in my purse, and I measured length and thickness of every erection I could get my hands (and mouth and pussy) on. I also learned that I could come very quickly on a bigger cock, and in almost any position, but with a smaller cock I need to ride him cowgirl fashion or have him fuck me from behind in order to achieve vaginal orgasm, and it takes me longer to get there. But I have to say that until I met my husband, the best sex partner I ever had was a guy with an average six-inch cock... but my goodness, he knew how to use that fucker! The biggest cock I ever had was almost 12 inches long and 10 inches in circumference. It was like being fucked by a stallion! This guy was a straight rammer, no real technique, and although I had orgasms with him, intercourse with him was just outright painful from beginning to end... my masochistic side showed up a bit there, hmmm? But I could barely walk the day after each time he fucked me, my pussy was so sore... and it didn't get any better with experience. I only lasted a couple of weeks with him, not surprisingly. My husband of all these many years has what I consider the perfect cock... 9 inches long and 8 inches in circumference, which is bigger than 90% of the guys I've had sex with. Big enough to really fill my pussy and not so big that I can't take him up my ass, a bit of a challenge to deep-throat but doable. Now, I'm not saying I wouldn't love him and be satisfied in bed with him if he had an average-size cock, because he's the total package for me and I love him for all of him... but there's no doubt in my mind that our amazing sex life is amazing in no small part because of his huge schlong. But I also have to say that he really knows how to work his hard partner inside me. He's the most incredible lover I've ever had, with hands, fingers, mouth, tongue, and especially his big cock. My husband's sexual experience prior to me was extensive, and he tells me that many of his lovers had their first purely vaginal orgasms with him... a testament to his technique, of course, but I believe more to his size. I've also talked to a lot of women friends and acquaintances about their sex lives, and I have to say that many if not most women who have regular vaginal orgasms have men with larger-than-average cocks. But I've also talked to a lot of women who don't care at all about penis size, I think because their orgasms are primarily clitoral, so vaginal stimulation just doesn't mean as much to them. Bottom line, I think any man can find women who will find the size of his cock "just right". A man should never feel the size of his penis is the determinant of his partner's satisfaction.

Wow, that sounds like you two have some fun!! Good for you! Pushing boundaries is something my husband is very good at... he will read something or see something that gets him thinking, then he tells me about it and we discuss it for a while. Sometimes it might seem pretty wild to me at first, but I have learned I can trust him, so I think we've tried just about everything a man and woman can do to each other. When I met my husband, I was a hot and horny girl who had had a lot of good plain vanilla sex, and with my husband things started out pretty vanilla, but we've got kinkier and kinkier over the years. There is literally nothing I wouldn't let him do to me any more, I don't think... anyway, so far it's been a great adventure and I expect it will continue to be for years to come. Our only firm boundary is fidelity, and exclusivity. Years ago we discussed bringing another person (a specific woman) into our bed. We were both curious, and I have to admit I was very attracted to her. I have never had sex with a woman, but watching girl-on-girl porn is sometimes a pretty hot turn-on for me, and we came close to bringing my friend into our bed. We eventually decided against it, because we learned from experienced swingers' advice that the emotional traps that one or the other of us might fall into were too risky for us. So we have stayed monogamous, and we're both happy this way. One thing that has kept our monogamy spicy is role-play. I'll put on a dark wig, for example (I'm blonde), and pretend to be someone else, and he'll pretend he's someone else, too, and we get into these incredibly hot and heavy fuck-sessions, totally turning each other on by being someone else for a few hours.

I'd have to say your description of your orgasm was very hot, and clearly very, very anal. Good for you! Mwaah! Congrats! I think you'll find as you experiment that your orgasms with anal stimulation are far more varied in character and intensity than your vaginal or clitoral orgasms. Depending on what else is going on, your orgasms may change considerably. I have blockbuster orgasms with my husband's cock in my ass and nothing else, which is actually my favorite kind of anal orgasm... but at the same time that having an orgasm with a vibrator on my clit and his cock up my ass is, as Mikayla says, a blow-me-out-of-the-bed orgasm that leaves my brains on the pillow for the rest of the day/night... And then there's the solo sex orgasms with a vibrator in my ass and another one on my clit... <sigh> I just can't pick a favorite kind of anal orgasm! Don't worry about whether your anal orgasms are the "right" kind... the main point is that you are cumming with anal penetration, and that is ALL good.

I love being fucked from behind. I mean, I loveloveloveLOVE it. Don't get me wrong, missionary is my alltime and absolute favorite position, my bread-and-butter-sex position, my longest-and-strongest position, the way I want to be fucked when I really need to be fucked, my sweet peaches and cream position. But being fucked from behind is almost as indispensible. My (ahem) backup of choice. It's more than the physical sensations of rear entry sex. Yes, rear entry sex offers exquisite sensations for a woman that she simply can't get in any other position: wonderfully deep penetration, G-spot stimulation, and so on. And fullness... mmmm. Even a modestly-endowed man feels bigger when he's behind me, and a well-endowed man can feel enormous. For those girls who crave being filled by their men, rear entry is wonderful. Not to mention the fact that when a man gets behind a woman, his position of mechanical advantage lets him slam her silly, which for a girl who prefers to be fucked by her man rather than the other way around, is the cat's meow. But I think it's at least as much the emotional aspects of rear entry sex that makes it so hot. When a woman kneels before her man, offering her vulnerable sex up to him, she assumes a powerfully submissive pose. She is saying by her very posture that she is there for his pleasure, to do with as he will. Most of the time, anyway... there's a way of bending over for a man that puts a woman in a very powerful position herself, of course, as any sex goddess knows. I've made more than one man scream in ecstasy by grinding my ass against him and clenching my pussy down hard on his cock until he loses all semblance of control. Make no mistake, I can fuck a man's brains out in this position when I have a mind to, and often did so when I was a younger single woman... but I rarely have a mind to any more. When my husband fucks me from behind, he does so with absolute mastery and authority. I submit to him and to his pleasure absolutely. (I am such a good girl!) I find it incomparably thrilling to know that I am at his mercy for my pleasure, and that my orgasm is not permitted until he has pumped his copious ejaculate into my thirsty depths, no matter how long he delays his own gratification. Of course, since my own pleasure is so dependent upon his powerful thrusts, I am not always able to hold back my orgasm, and I cannot help but yield to the irresistible ecstasy. (Sometimes I am such a bad girl!) Then, of course, I must submit to punishment for my disobedience, and what form may that punishment take? I will almost certainly be bound and gagged, my wrists tied in the small of my back and perhaps even my elbows bound back as well, and the knotted silk scarf gag (presoaked in champagne, of course) thick and filling my mouth and tied tightly at the nape of my neck. And of course, bent over... on my knees, on the bed, on the floor, or perhaps standing in impossibly high heels and bent over a chair or the bed. And then... well, who knows? A wonderfulyl slow spanking, perhaps? A thick plug, or his thick, hard cock, forced up my ass? A vibrator pressed against my clitoris, forcing me to the brink of orgasm again and again and again, but with his skillful denial of my release until I'm writhing and screaming through my gag with frustration? All of the above? Mmmmmm... but in the end my lover always completes my punishment with a delirious, delicious, prolonged and so completely satisfying orgasm as he fucks me. From behind.

Absolutely! We spice up our road trips with toys often. My husband likes to drive, I love to ride and enjoy the scenery, the conversation, and so on. Even when we our children were young and we went on family trips, we could enjoy sex play along the way by using insertable balls. We'll wait until we're no more than 2 or 3 hours away from our destination, then one of us will suggest we insert something (it's a buttplug as often as insertable balls, depending on our mood); he'll help me insert the toy, then we enjoy the next couple of hours talking about sex, what we want to do to each other, and so on... by the time we arrive at our hotel, we're both so horny it's insane. Make sure you're wearing lingerie/hose suitable for fucking when you do this. In our experience, there's no time or patience for undressing and then dressing up when we get to the hotel. My skirt is up and his cock's inside me before we even get to the bed, half the time!

Thank you, sunday... and yes, he is a lucky man! Of course, I'm a lucky woman, too... We are very, very well-suited to each other, sexually and in other ways as well. We both had to get through some rough relationships to find out what we need/want in a loving partner, and one of those things each of us realized was that we both absolutely NEED a partner who matches each other's libido, sense of sexual adventurism, fidelity, and trust. As for liking my way with words, I have to confess that I don't tend to spend much time writing about sex (here or elsewhere) when we're having lots of it... but when he travels on business for extended periods, I get so horny and I can't stop thinking about sex... reliving memories of great fucking, planning the erotic games we're going to play when he gets home (or I travel to meet him), and no amount of solo sex/masturbation can curb my desire. That's when the words just HAVE to come out! That's when I write my sexy stories (and read them to him over the phone while we both masturbate) and spend time here at tootimid.

Glad you liked it, Wendy! There is nothing better on a long car trip than reading some steamy erotica... !!

We watch porn together now and then to get the juices flowing, so to speak... my husband enjoys it more than I do, I think. But when we sit down and watch it together, I'm almost always the one who gets too horny to keep watching, so who knows? A lot of the porn I've seen over the years is just boring... women faking pleasure, bad acting in general. I really dislike the films where the camera is inches away from the actors' genitals. I don't need to see close-ups, I like to see beautiful bodies, sexy costuming, and real passion. Scenes where the couple are obviously really into each other and going at it with real desire are what turns me on, especially if the woman has orgasms (it's pretty obvious when they're faked orgasms) and I absolutely LOVE it when the man comes inside the woman instead of pulling out for the "money shot". Some of our favorites for the past while have been The Dinner Party, Crystal Dreams (great anal and girls who have real orgasms!), and Tristan Taormino's Anal Sex for Women DVD's. Some of the old classics are really hot, too. I love a couple of our John Holmes films... Also, my husband has recorded a lot of scenes off amateur internet sites where real couples record themselves having real sex... so much hotter than professionals faking it!

I tried to reply to your post the other day but my browser crashed on me. So I'll try again. First question: those rumors of permanent stretching are completely untrue. My husband and I have been enjoying regular anal intercourse (as in somewhere between two and ten times a month or so...) for more than 2 decades, and my anus is just fine. And my husband is very well-endowed, so if anyone's butt was going to crap out (ahem, sorry about the pun!) it would be mine! Your wife's desire to get her anus trained to the point where penetration would be easier is good. As she may have noticed, taking your hard cock up her hot, tight little bottom is easier the more frequently you have anal sex. If we're on our regular routine, my husband will prepare my anus for penetration with a well-lubed finger or two while licking my pussy or using a vibrator on my clit, and after 2-3 minutes of that I'm more than ready to take all nine inches of him up my derriere. He is always gentle and careful on initial penetration, but under normal circumstances we're talking about 10-15 seconds from start to full impalement, and I'm more than eager for full-power thrusting as soon as he gets all the way inside me. But if we've neglected our anal activities for a couple of weeks or more--which sometimes just happens, other things have a way of keeping our attention now and then--it might take 5 to 10 minutes of foreplay for my anus to relax fully with his fingers, and even then initial penetration might take several minutes if we're going to avoid pain. Your wife can prepare her anus for sex ahead of time, too, which is something I often do. I start with an enema in the early afternoon while my husband is at work, and then a second enema an hour or so later. About an hour or so before he is due to come home, I'll insert a butt plug and wear that as I go about getting drinks and dinner ready. By the time he gets home I'm hot & bothered and my anus is nicely stretched and ready for a good fuck. As for coming in your wife's ass... absolutely, do it!!! A woman who loves her man loves feeling him come inside her, and there is absolutely no harm that can come to her from having you pump her ass full of sperm. I've probably taken gallons of my husband's come up my bottom over the years and I am in excellent health.. I just had my first routine colonoscopy a year ago and the doctor said my colon is perfect. As another testimonial, one of my girlfriends and her husband have used anal intercourse as their main sexual activity to avoid using artificial contraception for over ten years. So enjoy.

ladylove... paolo is off doing man things today, so can't answer your post. So if I may...? I am an RN, so giving injections is something I'm skilled at. Still, I wasn't comfortable injecting my husband's penis until I went with him to his urologist's office and they showed us the technique. I performed the injections the first couple of times, but since then paolo has done his own injections. He says the shots are a bit uncomfortable sometimes, but only for a few seconds. He says that 5 seconds of a mild pinching sensation is a small price to pay for an hour or two of sexual bliss. We use very fine needles (30 gauge) and are careful about keeping the injections sterile of course. My husband's urologist does a lot of ED prescribing, and he says that injection therapy is by far the most popular and satisfying ED treatment for his patients... better than Viagra/Levitra/Cialis, and better than "the pump".

I don't know why I haven't stumbled across this thread before... I have been a fan of insertable balls for years and years! I have tried several types, and the "Smartballs" version is one of the best. I like the angle of the connection between the balls; no matter how they go in, they seem to always press against my g-spot juuuuussssst riiiiight, if you know what I mean. Not that they make me come the way a nice thick dildo can, but they put the right kind of pressure right where I need it when my clit is getting some good attention. My hb likes to insert things into me when we go on a road trip (and I like to have things inserted, naturally!). A set of Smartballs in a girl's pussy will make the miles fly by, I can assure you. And having the balls inside your pussy when your ass is full of hard cock is simply incredible... double penetration, double pleasure! We've tried that variation several times, and each time I came so hard I squirted all over the bed, something I almost never do. Last night, after reading this thread, I decided to dig around in my toybox and find my Smartballs and get a really good masturbation workout going. My husband is out of town and, as usual when he's away, I've been incredibly horny. I can't wait for him to come home and fuck my brains out! But I digress. I got out some of my favorite toys, including the Smartballs, undressed and put a very sexy adult DVD on to heat things up fast. I lubricated the Smartballs with a dab of Astroglide gel (our favorite lube) and slid them easily into my pussy. Kneeling on the bed, I stroked myself all over while the lucky girls in the first two scenes got all kinds of wonderful male attention. Rocking my hips back and forth made the balls move inside me, jogging my g-spot with delicious unpredictable rhythm. By the time the third scene on the porno DVD started, I was smouldering and ready for some serious action. (It's one of our favorites, a scene with an actress who is really into anal... watching her get fucked in the ass and enjoying it so obviously is a huge turn-on for me and my hb both!) I lubricateed one of my old reliable vibrators and turned the control on its base to full power, then placed the base between my heels and the tip right on my anus. The vibrations felt wonderful as I slowly eased down on it. As soon as I had the full girth in my anus, I felt the vibrations transmit through the membrane between vagina and rectum and the Smartballs started thrumming against my g-spot. OMG! I slowly pushed down on the vibe until I had the full 7 inches up my hot, tight bottom, timing the penetration to coincide with the violation of the porn acress's ass by the actor's thick, hard cock. I rocked my hips back and forth, letting the vibrator and Smartballs do their magic inside me, and in no time at all I rocked myself into a blistering hot orgasm. The movie was no match for my imagination at this point... my mind was focused on the memory of one of our hottest fucks of recent times. I leaned forward and knelt up on the bed, ass up and face down, and reaching back I got a good grip on the vibrator and with the mental image of my hb driving into me from behind, I fucked myself with the vibrator. The thrusting combined with the vibrations of the Smartballs on my g-spot was incredible. Remembering the feel of his strong hands holding my waist, the repeated hard slams of his belly against my upturned buttocks, the feel of his cock swelling inside me and his loud groan of completion as his cock pulsated and pumped his load deep in my ass, was all the imagery I needed. My orgasm shook the bed. So, yes girls, your Smartballs can be great for solo play, but I strongly recommend you try them when your man fucks you. I know that when I pick up my hb at the airport tomorrow, I'll be wearing not only my welcome-home garter belt and stockings, but my welcome-home-and-fuck-my-brains-out Smartballs as well!