smariette

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Okay, I think I've seen this SOMEWHERE, but can't find it now! How do i get to that spot in the male's anus that is kinda like a female's g-spot? (only way I can figure out how to describe it!) Where is it, and how do you, uh, "activate" it?

I didn't mean anybody had a role, I just didn't know how to phrase the subject for this post! lol. (: And I meant doing something in THAT missionary position, we change positions and everything, but I've only had 2 sexual partners and wanted to know, really, what all I could do when he was in control! THanks, Howard, a lot of what you said got my brain kinda turning ! Thanks for all the ideas, guys. (: I'm open to more, of course.

Yeah, that will be interesting to read!! I myself have never done anal, mainly because my boyfriend knows practically nothing about it and I'm afraid of that, but I told him if he read up on it and would be willing to let ME give HIM anal, I'd do it, but he also says, "no way in hell" So i guess that's the end of that!

When a man is doing the work, (he is pumping and not that woman), are there any things I can do instead of just kinda "lay there" (hehe) to spice things up a little? To make things better, maybe? I just feel guilty when i'm just laying there and he's going to town! Hehe.

Ohhh me too!

Sometimes when we are in missionary, my bf will sit on his knees, grab my thighs and put them over his shoulders and start doing it that way. That makes it go REALLY deep, and i think it hits my cervix and makes it hurt.. Does anybody else do this position? Do you like it, or does it make you hurt too? I think it's really sexy and don't wanna stop doing it, but it hurts!

Well, I LOVE trying new sex positions. What's your favorite and why>

And also, with that bedtime story thing, I LOVE to have bedtime stories made up on the spot, but I wouldn't say it could get me off sexually, unless it was a rated XXX Bedtime story hehe

Ahh, that isn't so weird. I've heard of that a lot, and my boyfriend does it to me occassionally. I like it.. But i basically like whatever gets HIm excited.

i’ve only orgasmed twice in my life, so I’m still kinda trying to figure the whole thing out! So, how do you know when YOU are about to orgasm? What does it feel like, a s best as you can explain it? Would also be kinda neat to se if anybody is different. Also, is there anything tyou do when you’re close to send you over the edge? For me, I THINK I'm about to orgasm when I feel a ton of pressure, and it kinda hurts but not in a bad way, at least that's what I've seen in common these past two times?? I'm such an orgasm newb!

Wow! That was really beautiful! Too bad I think the contest is already over ): That was really really good though.

Ah, you didn't insult me, hehe, I was trying NOT to come off that way! I just meant that there are other ways to communicate even tho you are writing notes or doing it online, verbal isn't the only way, and sometimes people need baby steps!! (:

Well, I just don't think you understand that there are different types of people. No matter how comfortable I am around anybody, It is hard for me to express my desires, not just about sex, but anything really. And I am really shy and conservative. I was with my ex for 4 years, in which we lost virginities to each other, and I was STILL shy about saying what I wanted. For me, this method works. This is communicating to me. And it works for our relationship. So, to tell me (or anybody really) that it's wrong, isn't really right, because like I said everybody is different.. Thank you for all that advice, I'm not trying to be rude or anything, I'm just saying that THIS works for me, and me and my boyfriend have a GREAT relationship and to me that is what really counts. Hehe. (: