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AllisonWonderland last won the day on May 7 2014

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  • Briefly Describe your last sexual encounter:
    Actually, I was alone and having a nice fantasy about an ex-boyfriend...
  • # of sex toys you own?
    4 (a few have gone to vibrator heaven)
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    Single
  • What is your age & gender?
    30/female

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  1. Both Howard and Mikayla have good points here. Practice makes perfect, so play play play with your bf and get comfortable with your sexuality. You've only just started to have sex, and you should expect a lifetime of learning ahead of you. One thing I can add about the pain is that a lot of foreplay and being fully stimulated before actually beginning intercourse can really help you. When you are sexually stimulated, your vagina will stretch and dilate on its own to accomodate a penis. Not having enough foreplay can be one reason it still causes you pain during sex. At least show your bf our posts so you can get more oral time! Secondly, experiencing too much stress or not being 100% comfortable with the sexual contact mentally can cause you to "close up". After all, the vagina is surrounded by muscles, and how easily do we get back and neck pains from stress alone? Women's sexuality is complex, and feeling external pressures about sex and other things can easily affect our bodies. For another thing, your hymen may still be partially intact. Although it's probably been broken through having sex and just by aging, going on what I've read there can still be parts of it intact. Time and further sexual contact will make sure it actually is broken and fully eroded, and a doctor's visit will tell you more about that. All in all, you should take some time to talk about this with your OBGYN and her expert inspection will help give you some answers.
  2. Let's not forget that HPV (a curable STD with a vaccine available) can cause cervical CANCER! I'll admit, I have had unprotected sex before on a few occasions. I know that once is all it takes, but I was lucky *knock on wood*. I really hope that if I have children, they don't ever try to go without a condom. I would hate for them to suffer the consequences! I think condoms being used in films is a great idea. It's true... many teens get their sex ed from adult videos, so showing them the smart way and reinforcing what their parents and teachers are saying will hopefully make it sink in.
  3. One I actually recommended to a friend as a starter vibrator was Sue Johanson's Royal Rabbit. It's not too big in girth or length, and it has a corded remote control for a newbie just getting used to the buttons. It's soft like skin since it's made of silicone and it has just enough variety of settings to make a starter think "WOW" but isn't overwhelming. Also, it's waterproof for those among us who don't have a lot of time to themselves and can grab a spare and private moment in the bath. It's really flexible, and who wouldn't love the whimsical look of it? Totally cute AND effective. It got an A+ from my friend... she was very thankful for the advice!
  4. I've been around the block a couple of times and discovered no two penises are exactly alike. Most of them are relatively straight with a slight curve upwards. A few I've seen curved a bit to the left or right, and one curved downwards. When I saw the few that curved to the side and the one that curved down, my reaction (both in my head and openly with the guy) was "oh cool, that's different". I could tell a slight difference in bed, but none of them actually hurt me. Regardless, I saw none of them as disgusting or scary, and only one was actually small (about three inches). I'd say that overall the curvature is not a big deal. It can help hit the G-spot, but even if it doesn't it varies the feeling inside. Remember that a woman's vagina is full of nerve endings, and curved penises just hit more of those with a firmer touch. That's usually a good thing.
  5. I would do it with two men, and I actually came ridiculously close once. But, I would never do it in a relationship. I'm a one man woman.
  6. Awesome! Just make sure you're in control there.. that's a nurse's job. Things like "tell me where it hurts" and a close, physical examination inspecting every inch of him should be perfect. You won't have to play long before he rips off your cute little costume. Now that I think about it, try to leave it on while you're having sex... that, along with the heels should really work him over!
  7. I have often fantasized that if I weren't in the mood or something that my bf or hubby would plunk down money on the dresser, one $20 bill at a time, until I nodded. Or just offer me money to do something he loved. I think it would be hot as hell... not being a real hooker, but waking up with a pile of bills on the nightstand when he leaves for work one morning after a particularly steamy night of straight fucking? If it was a very infrequent thing, it would make me want him all the more.
  8. I once put my cell phone on vibrate, wrapped it in cellophane, and called myself over and over and over... I am not even kidding.
  9. My most amazing dual action vibe thus far is the Bendi Beaver 2000 by Hustler. It does practically everything but take the dog for a walk. Try it!!! http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...amp;ProdID=4954 Also, I have Sue Johanson's Royal Rabbit vibe which has served me well. It has a little less vibration than I normally want, but both a close friend of mine and me can vouch for its ability to stimulate and satisfy. http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...amp;ProdID=4780
  10. Whoa... the neck thing (on either side) definitely works for me. Kissing, licking, sucking on my neck just below and behind my ear makes me go absolutely wild! I can't have it done to me in public unless he wants to be incredibly embarassed... instant writhing and moaning, and I go from zero to wet in five seconds.
  11. I've been reading these tips for a while now, and I can't wait to try them out... when I find a new guy! I just had a little tip for those of you asking about disabling the gag reflex. Mostly, it's mind over matter. Just be calm, for starters. But also I heard from a friend with a really strong gag reflex that his orthodontist would keep a salt shaker handy when my friend came in for a visit. No, nothing untoward happened between them ! According to the doc, a pinch of salt lessens your gag reflex... I guess it's because salt stimulates other tasting centers on your tongue that "distract" from the reflex. I don't usually have a problem with deep throating, so I haven't tried it. But for those of you struggling, it's worth a shot! Let us know how it goes.
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