I'm ready for this kind of relationship, I just needed someone to explain to me about his disorder because I never met anyone who has this kind of disorder before. I have a friend who's bipolar and she opened up to me about it little by little. Finally I asked her in person to fully explain to me how she felt so I have a better understanding about it and I picked up on how on her depressed days she didn't really want to talk to anyone, slept in her bed all day long and barely wanted to eat anything and then her moods changed and I picked up on it. I never said anything to her though. One day she was laying bed and crying and I told her to try to get out of bed, take a shower and maybe we can just go to the movies. I told her just to try. She took a half hour to decide and finally we went out to the movies.
I know little things about his disorder, I just don't know everything about it. I have noticed that he's very very blunt and he knows i was abused before and he did say once to me, "I'm sorry. Please don't take what I say to heart. I'm not trying to hurt you. I'm just blunt and tend to say a lot of crazy things sometimes. I even say things at work as well." I've been given him a few days for space and surprisingly enough he texted me through Facebook messenger. He told me he's not really a phone person, if I need to talk to him though he tells me to call. He wants me to get a phone so we can text each other so we don't always have to talk through Facebook messenger.
I agree that's he's really hurt and betrayed by being cheated on. I totally get that because I was cheated on too and it hurt me deeply. However it may be a different bit different from him and I don't mind telling him that I care for him and that I won't hurt him. He hasn't gotten upset around me yet about that kind of thing. Only once it happened and I ended up hugging him and told him that he's all I wanted. I'm a very patient person, I just get very confused easily and anytime I'm confused or don't understand something I get frustrated and keep trying to figure it out. If you could maybe link me some articles about his disorder or anything that could help me out in the near future that would be great. As for now I just plan on seeing where it goes and talking to him. He invited me to his place again on the 13th and told me in the near future he wants to request some days off to come and stay at my place. I was totally not even expecting this at all. Right now I think he's taking it slow with me until he completely knows for sure that I won't hurt him. Thanks again for all your responses, I just didn't honestly know anything about his disorder completely.