KevinJ

What an article! Right on the money in my eyes. I'm not Bi or Gay, but did do the ole experiment thing. Women are too hot. Anyway, I know someone going through a self-discovery period and it has been good, bad and scary. She's so sweet and tender this is so hard for her...and she's married. However, she really believes she's bi. She 'loves the dick too much' to be gay - her words. Thanks Mikalya. As for studies go, there was GREAT study published back in January of this year. The study followed many women for 10 years with 2 year check ups/questions answered about their sexual preferences. Surprise-surprise, by the end of the 10 years, most of the women wanted to be labeled Bi-Sexual or Unlabeled. "Fall in love with the person, not their parts" Here is a summary of the article or you can go the American Psychological Association and read the full study. It's pretty good either way http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/22809222/ Love everyone, hurt no one

I agree, I'm not trying to 'give' her any answers. However, this idea of attraction (on some level) to women is new and odd for her. She told me last night she wanted to NOTHING to jeopardize our relationship (so sweet!) she is just unsure of what these feelings mean. I have read-read-read-read and found so many real studies showing women being attracted to other women being really really normal. I'm just wondering how often this happens with others here on the board and what to 'do' about it? Mikayla? Any advice oh guru of TT???

Hello Sexed Up Forum, I have a question on behalf of my wife. She has noted of late that she has had thoughts/desires in her mind regarding attraction to women. She doesn't at all think or believe she is a lesbian (she has said on many a love making session she loves what I've got) but she can't help but have this reoccuring thought(s) from time to time about women. She is fairly nervous at the idea as to what it means and how to handle it; I was also. However, I totally forgot that this is common for women (I think). I'm doing some research right now and thought I'd post this to get some member feedback. I read Mik's article on what female celebrity her and her friends would 'love to lesbianize' (wow...) and that aided. My wife grew up EXTREMELY strict and this was one topic that was talked about with much judgement. Very right wing, controling and limiting in what she could do. She has been dealing with much of this for a few years now (our 4th anniversary is the 28th!) and we have made much progress. She told me she has felt some attraction on-and-off for a long time to the idea of women and some in particular. She is just afraid of what it means. I'm finding out it means she's 'normal'. She's a wonderful wife, lover and friend and I want to walk with her every step of the way. I'm just curious on some ideas to help her be free in this area, and not think she is stigmatized. I hope you all can help! God bless, Kevin