Actually, she was the one that asked if I could spend time there so she could just get me on her way back from somewhere that was in the same direction..... she could have gotten me before, but didn't want to drive the extra hour... lol And this time, we aren't in her house. We are going to be at the camp my SO and I work at taking care of the place for the weekend. Our boss asked us to keep an eye out for vandals over the holiday weekend, particularly overnight. As for kicking the heels in, I suppose you could be right.... he is a bit older than me, so she's probably worried that he's going to want to take advantage of me (my mother would kill me if she knew I was having sex before I am married)..... Sorry for whining, it just grates on my nerves a bit. But hey, she IS mom..... I'd NEVER dream of spending the night with a guy in the same house as her because I do know she's very against it before marriage.... Just a little while longer, I guess. Thanks for the insight guys! I really do appreciate helping me see it from other angles....