Hi gang, my wife and I are tiptoeing around anal...getting closer to one day her using a strapon on me. I bought an aneros a couple of years ago, and I still don't think it works. I've put a lot of time into it, and I'm not getting what all the reviews say. I do enjoy digital penetration, which makes me think that its just my body and the hard plastic of the Aneros just don't agree. My question is, before we take the plunge and buy the $70 Bend over Beginner set...should I try a plug of some sort, and if so which one? Any advice would certainly be helpful.