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thanks everyone! i guess we'll just have to give it a go, or rather i'll wait till shes more willing/interested in doing it again. oh, i was wondering about fingering the anus. are there better ways or methods to go at it? i read all the articles here and read tristan taormino's guide to anal sex, but couldnt find a better description of how to begin. like rubbing around the anus? or inserting a finger. what things feel good?

first, thanks for all your advice! i was more so just looking for it because i get a little enthusiastic during our sessions and she likes it fast. so for things like doggie, her being a petite thing, it hits her cervix causing discomfort. but nice and slow works!

Is there a place I can get a limiter for me? I searched the website and I'm not really looking for a Cock ring, but more as something that prevents me from going too deep.

Hey there everyone! Hoping that someone might share their experiences and advice with me on a small issue. My SO decided to let me try anal with her (yay!) so we took things slow, washed up, used lube, and tried it out. She said there wasnt really any pain, but commented that she felt really full and it was uncomfortable. Since then she's been really reluctant to try again, and I don't want to pressure her. But in the off chance she does want to give it another go, how can I prevent this from happening? I think it might be because she's reluctant in general about anal, and thus might not be relaxing or trying to enjoy it. (I definitely plan on talking to her more about this, when the time comes) I was just wondering, do other members have similar experiences? Is there a reason she fills uncomfortable? Can I change this? Oh some background info. We have a bit of a body size difference. I'm 7' down there and shes a petite 5'0 ft girl. Thoughts please!

Thanks for the warm welcome!

I have the same problem with my SO. even if shes really aroused, she doesnt like it when i hit her cervix. I like the feeling, but not at the cost of it being painful to her.

I actually really like it, but I'm a bit afraid of bringing that point up with the SO. Its still early in the relationship and shes a bit on the unadventurous side. Power to all the guys that have tried it and like or even don't like it.

Hey there! My name is Alex. Always loved this site, thought I'd join the forum fun!