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Lady love thats great advice. Take it slow~!

I have been married 20 + years and up until this year oral didn't happen on my part. I agree that I think I was just scared or freaked out by it and yes the way you are brought up is part too. Close your eyes or in the dark works, try 69 at first that way you are both busy and your mind is on you being pleased as well as him, it seems to take the pressure off. As for the gag reflex, I'm pretty sure it has happned to everyone at first so you gag, it's to be expected! Go slow when you start to gag back off a bit. Honestly, after a few times you should be loving it, I do.

Hi! Nice to have you!

Welcome back. I haven't been around long but look forward to you sharing agian.

So glad to see the forums back!!!! I missed them.

Hello, I think we are all "lurkers" at first! There is so much information here you will love it.

Hello, I have read in many post about "Howard's" post concerning Nibbling like corn on the cob. Can someone share this post with me please? I do not see it anywhere here? Thank you for all the great advice!

Him first also and for many years before I tried. I am the same way it will get better I am sure. I won't even let my SO watch, I face his feet. Silly after all these years of being together. I just don't feel I am expierenced enough at it. One day, I guess.

Hello Everyone, I am new to these boards and have loved reading and learning from all the post! There is always more to learn! Thank you to everyone for sharing and being so honest!

Hello Ladies, I just wanted to thank you for all your advice and suggestions. My SO and I have been together for 25 years. He is my first and only. Up until 3 weeks ago oral was not somthing I was willing to try. I was very self conscience about it and wasn't sure how or what to do. Thanks to all I have read and learned it has been a wonderful 3 weeks! Thank you all!