we love the vibrating panties. recently my husband and I were slow dancing at a crowed club and my husband was teasing me with the remote, he went to far and I had a big orgasim, thank goodness I had a long dress on so people could not see the cum running down my thigh, this was so hot. we consumated the event in the parking lot as he cleaned up the cum on my thigh and pussy. that's my suggestion. Go for it..SuzyQ