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Thanks for all the warm welcomes! My toys arrived today, and I'm taking my time to get to know them. Waterproof toys are a new thing for me, and I'm definitely looking forward to some good clean fun in the shower. Tyger, thanks for the reminder about the reviews. Some of my toys had reviews, some didn't, but I'll let people know what my experiences are with those. Well, I'm off to conduct some research...

Free (I'm not free, but I'm reasonable) ;p

I use the more formal terms. I feel very comfortable with my family doc. She's just a bit younger than me, and I've been seeing her for 15 years. I'll probably tell her about the TT site when I see her this fall for my physical.

I posted this to an old thread yesterday, before I figured out how these forums work. This gives a little more info about me and why I'm here. I just ordered some new toys for myself as an early "graduation" present--my funny term for menopause. I'm 49 and have been divorced for 8 years. Personal values include not having sex with another person unless I'm married to them, so I've been going solo since the divorce. One of my favorites is my adjustable shower massage. All of my previous sex toys died from use, so decided I'd try some new ones. I know that having regular orgasms helps my physical and mental well-being. Don't want to die without having had a more fulfilling sex life. I am being treated for depression, migraines, arthritis, and I have multiple sclerosis with extreme fatigue, occasional spasticity, and some incontinence. Masturbation helps with all of the above. I think more doctors should be talking about sexual health at annual physicals. One of the jokes I love about this: A divorced woman goes to her first annual physical since the divorce. The doc asks if she is sexually active, and she replies, "Do you mean with somebody?" LOL! I'm thankful for these forums, as I don't know if any of my friends would be open to this sort of discussion. "Well-behaved women seldom make history."

Hello! I'm a newbie from Wisconsin. I read some of the forums earlier and got inspired to take a long, HOT shower! Instead of settling for the usual clitoral orgasm, I took my time and enjoyed a great G-spot shower. Working my way up to multiple orgasms, which I'm hoping to enjoy when my new toys arrive! I am very close to menopause, and I must say the hormonal changes have me wanting more orgasms. Gee, isn't it great to be a woman, able to fulfill my desires at the touch of a button! LOL! I'm glad I found this site, and these forums, where adults can talk about sex without getting too pornographic. I appreciate this, as I was sexually abused when I was young, and have worked through my own issues and am looking forward to developing my healthy sexuality even more. Viva la orgasm!

I just ordered some new toys for myself as an early "graduation" present--my funny term for menopause. I'm 49 and have been divorced for 8 years. Personal values include not having sex with another person unless I'm married to them, so I've been going solo since the divorce. One of my favorites is my adjustable shower massage. All of my previous sex toys died from use, so decided I'd try some new ones. I know that having regular orgasms helps my physical and mental well-being. Don't want to die without having had a more fulfilling sex life. I am being treated for depression, migraines, arthritis, and I have multiple sclerosis with extreme fatigue, occasional spasticity, and some incontinence. Masturbation helps with all of the above. I think more doctors should be talking about sexual health at annual physicals. One of the jokes I love about this: A divorced woman goes to her first annual physical since the divorce. The doc asks if she is sexually active, and she replies, "Do you mean with somebody?" LOL! I'm thankful for these forums, as I don't know if any of my friends would be open to this sort of discussion.