you are in vegas and having a hard time? you arent in las vegas, alaska are you? try aff, xhamster, and the other tons of places online, there may even be places in vegas to check. now for some advice... be careful with choices of partners and make sure you are both on board with expectations and limits. stick to them like glue, remember you two are trying something new, if you are both not totally into it, let it go. you really need to be sure of things, just because she says im ok if you want to. is not a yes, its more like ....im afraid youre gonna cheat on me, and if you are id rather be there and get off also. it was a major prob in my marriage, even though it wasnt the only reason we divorced but the second my dick went in a friend of ours it was a downward spiral. good luck there are wow some fun times and you will find things to do you never would have thought of happening. i was more excited by some public nudity flashing, blowjobs at a park, stuff like that sex in the car like a teenager again, was actually better then the problems swinging gave us. just my 2 cents