GREAT POST!!!!! Just a guy's opinion here but I can't think of any reason why a guy would be scared of a woman initiating sex. EVER? My excitement level has always been higher when a partner initiates to me. For one, it shows you hace clear intentions and desires and alleviates of thinking we will be shot down. Open communication between couples is required for loving couples, and we guys are more open to communicaton in this sense!! I can only remember turning it it down a few times that was due to not feeling well and desperately needing sleep from lack of the night before. Unless, there are feelings of inadequacy and not feeling that you can fully pleasure the partner. But, hell, give it your best shot, LITERALLY!!!!!!!