I am new at this, i was wondering, how many times a day is "normal " or "average" to masturbate??? My husband ( i am 33) and for the first time i did this a few weeks ago, says i have 33 years to make up for so what ever i want to do and how ever many times is fine, but, i dont want to "deminish" being with him becasue i am always taking care of it myself. I am doing it at least once a day, sometimes twice, not always getting to the finish line, but stil feelin good, so i dont mind so much, is this normal??!!~ christi