Cacky

Very nice. I could enjoy that

Hey sweetie. I didn't buy my first toy till I was 40. So much to choose from. Hard to know whats gonna be good for you. Both Ladylove and Tyger are experts with this. Personally I didn't like the rabbit type, still don't own one. But lordy do I have lots of others. As they have stated read the reviews and get one made for beginners. You can and will get many different types for different areas. I know it's hard not to be really shy, but with time you will come to see that the great people here only want to help you. Good luck with your adventure into toys.

Welcome back Ready. I was wondering where you had taken off to. Glad your back

Many?.... Had trouble coming up with one word.

So true Lady. I have secrets that my "real life" friends don't know. And I have only touched on in here. So I think we keep secrets to keep an illusion of ourself. Don't tell them everything about me they might not like it. Thats what I think. But I have many insecurities.

Change is all around me TPBM. Is enjoying the nice fall colors and cooler weather?

Glistening

During my visit last week I asked several questions. Did not tell her why I was so curious. Do you have many guys get a full job? Several. She thinks most of them are gay. She has 4 straight couples that come in together. Otherwise she thinks most are not married. Do you do a trim/wax on some? Yes that's more popular. (could not give me a number). But more get half wax than full wax. Is it harder to do a guy or a girl? Harder to do a guy. She started to talk lots about this. Guys are very sensitive to touch and some have gotten erections. (yikes). She tries to not talk to the guys and moves fast if she sees them growing. Hope my investigative report answered some questions. As I have said before I love my wax job. You all should give it a try.

Always trying never succeeding TPBM.....Is spending time on themselves?

Going for my monthly wax. I am going to ask her how many guys she does. I did not know that guys got waxed or shaved. That would be a plus. No more hair in my mouth. Liking that image. I know for sure hubby would NEVER get waxed.

Affair

Well. From my side of this. I understand how you can be worried and then sad pissed at the outcome. Way back when I was 20 I had so many emotions going on that I did not enjoy it at all. Worried about how he can possibly like this. So you are ahead of me in that regard because you asked for it. So it was your guy who has the hang up. I think you did all the right things as a beginner. Shower shave and being considerate of him being down there. So kudos to you So moving forward the two of you have to talk. Has he not done this before? It was his first time with you or ever? Think back to your first time giving head. A little scary. But it got better right? I think it's the same with a guy. Practice makes perfect. So for your next time. Don't think about anything but the sensations. And try and remember that he loves you all of you. Going forward I think you will come to really enjoy this part of your sex life.

Every 4weeks I get waxed. Love it.

Wendy. I can't wait for you to have time to tell us. I have so enjoyed this thread. Boo. I think I could go to those clubs but just watch. I have said before it takes lots and lots and lots of trust. I have had many great alone sessions after reading these stories.. don't know if I could act on my fantasy of having another women so enjoying this.

So wait a second. There is the cleanliness factor. (bacteria). Don't transfer from one to the other. And use lots of lube. I have had great anal (by myself). And have to remember not to transfer the toy. So I would recommend a condom for anal then take it off. And then there is always the omg I'm not clean enough. Which we have talked about before. How to get ready for anal.