Hey, I had a question, not necessarily about sex. I haven't been single since I was 16 years old. I was married, and divorced. I was dating someone after my divorce and that relationship turned out horribly, he was abusive and manipulative, but I still miss him like crazy. Well, long story short, he broke up with me via text message a few days ago (classy) and now I just don't know what to do. I'm a workaholic, but it's so hard to sleep alone, to feel alone and unwanted. I know how co-dependent that sounds, but this is a huge transition for me. I'm a smart, educated, feminist, but I feel like I'm never going to find another guy that I could love as much as I loved my exs. I guess my question is, How do I adjust to this? Also, my ex boyfriend is a jerk, he was verbally abusive and used me to do his dirty work. I fell so completely in love with him, and then out of nowhere he dumps me. Won't explain why, won't tell me anything. But it's everything I can do to not crawl back to him. I feel like I'm in a horrible rut. I know all of this sounds desperate and lonely, I'm ashamed of myself for feeling any of this. Damnit, I'm smarter and stronger than this, but I can't help it. Any advice or words of encouragement would be greatly appreciated- Thank you.