I am in my mid 40's, happily married to my wife for over 15 years and together for abut 20. She's 6 year younger than me....lately just not lasting long at all either by myself, oral from her or penetration. I do have a vasectomy from about 5+ years ago.
I want to last longer for so many reasons, but mainly to satisfy my wife....any guys or couples experience this too ( I am sure you are out there) and what tips and or sprays you have tried and worked? I want to also make sure not to desensitize her in the process. No real issues getting it "up" thankfully, just take a little longer than from my 20's - ha.