I've tried little weekend trips, maybe hotel with a hot tub, and shopping involved. Love to perform oral, what woman doesn't like that? Try to show her that I still find her desirable, after 27 yrs of marriage, by purchasing sexy lingerie, thongs for her, and g-strings, pouches, and thongs for me. Have been debating on introducing some toys, but not quite sure how they'd be viewed by her though.