There are times i don't even use toys and just position myself in various ways (cowbow/cowgirl, doggy, the chair position where your legs are up and your're spread eagle.... are my favorites). Ive always wondered if its possible for two guys or two strap ons to mount each other? Might be uncomfortable.
Another dream kink is the ole spitroast. Sucking and getting pegged. Maybe holding onto a few shafts or fingering a few chicks at the same time. Getting massaged everywhere like a pleasure resort. There's porn on this of course and fantasy pics like Futanari.
Futa might be my biggest fetish esp demon futa. I love tits, hips, lips, lovely hair and big cocks. Ive shifted a lot towards that and would say i'm more of a bottoms type but not neccessarily passive. Having that control and riding say a dildo or imaginary cock is great fun. Solo guys have to use a lot of imagination.
I do think a lot of people want that orgasm or to be mounted and filled with such a lustgasm their tongues are hanging out, theyre light headed and hearts are practically in their eyes.
Full body sensual massage with lots of teasing but no penetration until that right moment.... oh yeah.
clothing or sexual clothing. Do whats fun. Man or woman in whatever floats your boat. There are naughty wears for probably every kink so have fun and make love until you pass out.