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  • Birthday February 14

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  • Briefly Describe your last sexual encounter:
    Hand Job (giver)
  • My Favorite Toy
    Electric breast pump (I know it's for nursing mothers, but it feels great on dry boobs, too)
  • # of sex toys you own?
    27
  • Marital status
    Single

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  1. Other than an adult theater five hours from home all of the guys I met were on Craig's List. I wasn't initially impacted because at the time I was in a monogamous relationship with a woman. But now I'm single and I want to make instructional videos for women who have my deformities. Well, they'll be made as instructional videos but I'd wager they'd be viewed as hardcore porn, but that's beside the point. In order to demonstrate the techniques I'll need a man to film with. Normally I'd go to Craig's List for that but it's not an option anymore. Every site that's advertised as the Craig's List replacement has been a scam. The real Craig's List was absolutely free to use. These sites either require you to start with a 3 day paid trial or they'll let you go through the whole account creation process then say you have to pay before you can view profiles or send messages.
  2. I'm going to be honest. I hate anal sex. There's a high risk of injury if you have a partner who doesn't know what he's doing, if you want to avoid a mess there's so much prep work that there's no spontaneity, and even a pinhole opening in the condom, the chances of which are actually increased during anal sex, can lead to severe infections for the man even if you're both completely free of STDs. I've recently looked into frotting. It seems like the perfect solution for the most part. It's relatively clean, it's mutually pleasurable, there's really no risk of injury, and there's only a very minor risk of infection (that last point is important for a slut like me). The big issue is that it seems to be the epitome of masculine sex acts, and that's a problem for me. I like to downplay the fact that my clit can function as a penis, but there's really no getting away from that with frotting. I thought I came up with a solution. I slide a masturbation sleeve that's open on both ends over my clit, then my partner penetrates the sleeve above my clit and thrusts just like with any other form of penetration. All of the benefits of frotting, in theory it should give him the same sensation as anal, what little mess there is will be contained to my clit and his cock, and I get to be the woman during sex, not just a feminine looking man rubbing his cock against another man's. The only issue is it seems like the sleeve would tear from that type of double penetration. I've used similar items before, toys that were designed to look like the real thing, and the sleeve attached to it was pretty floppy. I made the mistake of using it laying on my back and tore right through it. Seems like the elasticity isn't there in those materials. So does anyone have any tips for something I can use as an adapter of sorts? Something I can put on my clit that will allow me to frot, but still maintain the illusion that I'm being penetrated as a woman?
  3. Before I start I have to say that I hate scat and golden showers and everything like that. Not much makes me sick. When my water heater was out and I showered at my parents' house my mom would feed me, and since they had already eaten before I got there I'd have supper while watching TV with them before showering. They were big fans of CSI and CSI: New York (though they hated Miami. Didn't like David Caruso). They'd still be big fans if the shows were still on. My dad observed autopsies on the highway patrol and said the ones on CSI were so accurate that it was like watching a real one. When those scenes would come on my mom would say "I don't see how you can eat while watching this." I'd just say "it doesn't bother me," then take a bite. I pretty much have an iron stomach. But scat porn and golden showers will make me throw up even if I haven't eaten for two days. But I love people on the toilet. If I don't have to see what's coming out of them someone on the toilet will turn me on. I'm not out as trans to my family, so if I go anywhere with them I have to pretend to be a man. This means using the men's room. If I'm in there and the guy in the next stall is grunting it drives me wild. If he's the type who grunts and follows it up with a hard breath or two I have to fight off the urge to slide under the partition and lock our mouths together. I have to limit myself to single occupancy ladies rooms to avoid throwing fuel on the fire. Now there's a huge controversy about trans women in ladies rooms, but I will say that none of us use the ladies room for sexual reasons. We use it for safety (going in the men's room could get us beaten, possibly to death) and because we're women, so we'd naturally go where the establishment tells woman patrons to go. But because of my toilet fetish I can't be around other women when I use the ladies room. Hearing a woman straining on the toilet turns me on as much as hearing a man strain on the toilet, and the sound of a woman peeing turns me on (if you haven't heard it, it's hard to describe but the urine passes out of the female body with a distinctive sound. Depending on the woman it can be unnoticeable, covered completely by the sound of the urine hitting the toilet bowl or water, or heard throughout the entire ladies room). There's a woman on YouTube who filmed herself on the toilet, nothing graphic just the camera on her face, and when her humming and singing gave way to grunting and heavy breathing it's as hot as any masturbation video or full on sex video. It doesn't matter if I'm in the men's room, ladies room, or unisex restroom. It doesn't matter if the person in the stall next to me is a man, woman, or fellow TG. If they grunt between "pushes" (I guess that's the best way to put it) or start breathing heavily it turns me on. Using the ladies room isn't a sexual thing, but being around people of any sex or gender while they're going to the bathroom is a very sexual thing for me. I've always wanted to make out with someone while they're straining to poop. Just straddle their legs while they're on the toilet, embrace them, and make out like we're at a drive-in. Unfortunately no one who's spent the night with me, guy or gal, will indulge me in it. If they're on the toilet when I'm getting in the shower most of them wave me away if I just try to kiss them good morning. Another fantasy I have, and this is the only time other than trying to conceive that I'd want to use my clit as a penis, is passive frotting. You take a strip of ace wrap or any other fabric that can be tightly wrapped to act as a buffer between the skin and the tape, wrap your genitals together, then wind waterproof medical tape all the way around it so it stays. After that you just let your natural movements create the necessary friction. Basically it's hands free frotting. You tie together, then you either embrace and let the swaying most people naturally do while standing do the work, you make out, or you just do something romantic like slow dance. You do this for an evening, and if at the end of the night only one of you or neither of you have experienced anything you still have the option of thrusting like you were sharing a masturbatory sleeve. I've never really been too fond of the idea of classic frotting. It just seems too masculine to me, drawing attention to the genitals, and I'm the type who likes to downplay having a clitoris that functions as a penis, but I would love it if I could find a man who isn't just focused on having an orgasm ASAP, who would like the romance of spending an evening joined together, not thrusting away to satisfaction but embracing, dancing, truly making love, and letting it come gradually.
  4. If money was no object I'd be able to try both of the ones I always wanted to try. There's a beautiful pregnant love doll that I wish I could afford. The only thing stopping me from getting it is that I don't have $2,000 I can part with, but the moment I reach a point where I can spend the money without triggering a personal financial crisis I'm placing an order. I think the company that makes her calls her Olive. I would get full use out of every feature offered and other than times when I want to see her in a cute little outfit she'd be every bit the nudist I am, but it's not even purely a sexual thing. I love pregnant women and I've always wanted to become a co-mother, and it could give me a taste of the live-in-lover perpetual mommies-to-be experience (the closest I've come so far was a platonic friend staying with me for a few weeks after she separated from her husband when she was pregnant). Maybe even have a trusted friend come over while I'm out of the house and move her around, so when I come home one day she could be napping in the recliner in front of the TV, come home the next day and she could be on the toilet or in front of the computer doing some online shopping or even standing in front of the mirror (and yes, you can order them with "standing feet" so they can stand up) holding a makeup brush preparing to go out. Basically the day-to-day of what I imagine living with someone would be like if I could keep a lover around for more than a few weeks. Might even get her a wheelchair so we can go out and have shopping days together (I know I'd get stares, but I get stared at anyway for being trans). The Sybian, however, is all about sex. Put my love doll on there, maybe rig a small speaker up in her mouth streaming recordings of women masturbating (you can easily find them online) to complete the experience. Wrap her arms around me and make out while she "rides to ecstasy." Then when my turn comes the make-out session continues on the floor. So if money was no object I wouldn't try just one sex toy. I'd get the two I've desperately wanted from the time I learned of their existence and use them together.
  5. Those little suction bulbs for nipples never have enough suction for me, and nipple clamps are the other extreme. Too painful. But when I was with one of my friends while she was with a lactation consultant she, after the consultant was thoroughly satisfied that I wasn't producing milk that would mix with hers, let me try the breast pump for half a minute and it was a mind blowing experience. It was like losing my virginity all over again while getting a deep tissue massage (in terms of pleasure, not sensation) after drinking five cosmopolitans. On the way home I stopped and bought a hospital grade breast pump. I have nipple orgasms every time I use it, though some days it takes longer than others because I have to shake the guilt. You don't get much more wholesome than breastfeeding. In fact, in my circle of friends it's considered sacred. We even have a ritual whenever a woman in our group has a child and her milk comes in, whether she's a first time mother or it's her seventh child. It's a closed secular communion of sorts, open only to those who can be trusted not to sexualize it. She hand expresses into a chalice, then we form a line, kneel in front of her while we put our hands on her breasts (considered sacred by my group, though I swear we're not a cult. Just friends celebrating womanhood (and even trusted guys celebrate it with us)), and she wets our lips with her milk before the baby's father or co-mother drinks it. So breastfeeding is actually treated with reverence. No one has gotten onto me for using a breast pump for pleasure. In fact, some of my friends use mine for the same purpose when they're at my house or they'll borrow one from a mother in our group who doesn't need it, but I can't help but feel a little guilty about using something designed specifically for something as wholesome as helping to feed a baby for sexual gratification. Is this weird or wrong? Should I just put it away and give it to the next new mother in my circle of friends or should I keep enjoying it?
  6. My name's Tiffany, I'm 37, bi (with a stronger pull toward women in terms of relationships and a stronger pull toward men for raw sexuality), polyamorous (triads only with one other woman and one man, I need men and women so I only enter relationships where I can have both men and women), and I'm what most people would consider a male to female transgender, though I prefer to think of myself as a woman with deformed genitals, hormonal issues, and a gender swapped upbringing. I go into greater detail in the about me section of my profile if you're interested. I've been looking for a place where I can openly talk about sex without all of the other limitations I've faced on other sites. In places where I don't have to hide my deformities sexual discussion beyond what you'd find in a conservative rural school's sex ed class is a bannable offense. In sites where I can openly discuss sex I have to hide my deformities at the fear of persecution and even outright banning, which limits what I can talk about because how I take advantage of my deformities is a large part of my sexuality. While I don't have any reason to assume hostility toward me here, I'm still unsure of whether or not I'm welcome here because when I was filling out my profile the only options for gender were male, female, and I'm not telling. Well I'll proudly tell you that I'm female, but I feel it's important for me to be open about my status as what most would call trans to avoid confusion. It's just easier to tell people I'm trans than it is to tell them I'm a woman, but I have hormonal issues stemming from genital deformities then letting their imaginations go wild or spend most of my evening in a Q&A session. It's easier to just say my penis, scrotum, and testes than it is to explain about my clitoral deformities, the sack of skin that formed from my fused labia, and the ovaries that dropped into that skin sack instead of staying in the abdominal cavity every post when someone inevitably asks what deformities I'm referring to, or explaining why someone who has female on her profile is talking about her penis, scrotum, and testes. If you'll have me then this will be the first place I can truly be free.
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