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You need to take your time, don’t rush into anything you may regret. Not all men who are willing to go down on you are really good at it. If you are ok to the idea, don’t rule out oral by another woman. I’ve heard women do women better than any man can... with the exception of yours truly. I am an expert at oral; a skill that evolved over many years of concentrated effort. My female partner is of course euphoric, very grateful and certainly knows how to reciprocate with her incomparable oral skills. My point is, you may or may not find that highly skilled partner right away. Meanwhile, there are toys that work well to simulate that feeling.

I think you have yet to meet a guy who knows what he's doing. You can't get off because they don't last long enough. Ugh! The angle of guys penis as he's penetrating you makes a huge difference. Straight in & out isn't the best angle. Find a guy who can last, put on your cowgirl hat and ride him while experimenting with different angles. Definitely try to rub your clit up and down his shaft while on top. Success not guaranteed but you will learn a lot about what feels good.

Thank you, this is very helpful and valuable information! We are both extroverts when it comes to striking up conversations with strangers so socializing will come easy. We would also like to see what happens without participating. What would we expect to observe if we were intensely curious? The club we want to visit has all the "activities" happening in their downstairs area. FYI: my girlfriend is hot and will attract some attention. Do we simply say we are there just to look around if approached by persons interested in playing?

Can anyone offer advice on what to expect during first visit to swingers club? My girlfriend and I are curious. She has always had fantasy of having sex with two men ar once. I'm ok with it but we thought it best to observe during first visit. This was my idea and she is very nervous. She said she never thought her fantasy could become reality but has recently expressed more and more interest in it.

Anyone have experience with swingers clubs? My g-friend and I are interested in checking out a specific club that got great reviews but there wasn't much info on what to expect for first time visit. We have already decided that we should just "observe" during visit. However, my g-friend has fantasy of being with two men at once and if the opportunity arises she may change her mind and want to participate. I'm ok with it but not sure how that fantasy becomes reality considering we have no experience.

Ok... 😉 The next day I told my girlfriend we were going to next use this combination in public on an evening flight from Rome to New York City. I'm glad I gave her several days notice because the anticipation was driving her crazy. The day we left Rome I took the toys apart, removed the batteries and placed everything in a ziplock bag. I had no trouble going through security. Our seats were next to the window of a jumbo jet so we had both the window and aisle seat. Once settled in, I scouted the other passengers around us wondering if and/or when they were going to sleep. Everything looked promising so once airborne, I assembled the bullet and the egg. I told her we were going to try and play after flight attendants served us dinner. I correctly assumed that other passengers would be trying to sleep after the meal. Before dinner was served I sent her to the bathroom with both toys plus a small bottle of lube to coat the bullet and help insert the egg. When everything was in place she returned to her seat with a big smile on her face telling me the egg slid right in without extra lube. As they served us dinner, I started the egg on its lowest setting. She had the window seat and started to squirm. When dinner was finished, and all passengers around us either asleep or fully engaged in their movie of choice, I ignited the bullet on its lowest setting. Next, I increased the vibration of the egg to a setting she had confessed gave her the most pleasure. We then covered our laps with blankets to allow ourselves an increased level of privacy. She had decided back in our hotel that a dress was the best clothing option for what we had planned and she made a perfect choice. She had earlier told me that the bullet felt best when I added pressure with my hand and held it in place right there on her sweet spot. I had done this before so as I slipped my hand under her dress, I knew exactly how to maneuver the bullet in a way that set her clit on fire. As I added pressure with my fingers, I ramped up the intensity level with the remote control. In what seemed like only a few minutes, I could feel her body start to quiver. As I added a little more pressure with my fingers, she buried her head into her jacket with both hands and I felt her entire body shake with an intense orgasm. I immediately turned off both devices and allowed her to recover. Several minutes passed before she stopped quivering completely. When she finally gained enough composure to speak her first words were: "holy f---!!!" I wispered back "I'm not done with you yet." I next turned on the egg then the bullet, ramping up their intensity to previous levels. She looked at me with an OMG expression. As soon as I slipped my hand under her dress and pressed the bullet against her clit she came again with same intensity as before. After I gave her a few minutes to recover from orgasm number 2 we went for round 3. This one was more powerful than the previous two. Her entire body went into spasms that were awe inspiring for both their intensity and duration. She later confessed that she couldnt stop cumming! Note to self: very thankful airplanes cabins are loud. Once she has recovered, I removed both toys and gave her a pillow. She slept for the rest of our flight.

The egg/bullet combo works great! I waited to spring this combo on her until we were on vacation in Europe. She has several pairs of panties with little pockets in them so I asked her to place the bullet in her panties as we were getting dressed to go out to dinner. I then told her to insert the egg telling her it's purpose was to exercise Kegel muscles. While she was brushing her hair I turned on the bullet which caused her to shriek with surprise. Based on her reaction I decided that I would modify my original plan which was to turn on the egg for the first time while we were listening to our waiter list the nightly specials. Instead, as I was calling our waiter to refresh our first glass of wine, I turned it on just before he arrived at our table. She jolted, did some serious squirming but made a valiant attempt to keep her composure. After he left she said "what the F___ was that???" I told her, and then went through all the different vibrating cycles until she settled on one that she liked and could maintain for a while. She loved it! As dinner ended, and with the egg still purring, I asked the restaurant to call us a taxi then we went outside to wait. The street was very quiet so I found a dark little corner out of the lights, engaged her with a passionate kiss, and fired up the bullet. I then slipped one hand between her legs, pressing the bullet tightly against her. The combination was pure erotic electricity! Already aroused by the egg, it only took about a minute for her to orgasm. Fortunately she had another few minutes to finish cumming and recover before the taxi arrived. We used this combination again on an airplane while somewhere over the Atlantic on our way back to the United States. But that's another story...

I will...! She returns Thursday night from extended time away. While she has been gone, I've loaded up with several new purchases from TooTimid. Don't yet know when I will spring this new combo on her. Like I said, she loves surprises. She will not be told the egg is a remote vibrator. I want her to think it doesn't do anything... Until we go out to dinner and she is listening to waiter explain dinner specials... Surprise!!!

Now that weed is legal in CO my partner and I use it during sex play once in a while and it definitely enhances the entire experience. Every touch, kiss, lick, etc feels amplified in intensity. We like edibles (taking HALF a normal dose) 30 minutes before bedtime. It takes about 40 minutes to start feeling effects and one hour after eating, effects are maxing out. We like to be between the sheets and engaging in foreplay before buzz starts and slowly ramp up our sex play as we feel the effects start kicking in. WARNINGS: 1. do not mix alcohol with weed! 2. If you have a partner, take it easy on each other first time. Not everyone feels the same kind of buzz. You may want to have rough sex but your partner may just want to cuddle. In general, weed makes you want to slow down, take your time and appreciate every sensation.

My girlfriend loves surprises, especially in the form of new sex toys. I'm excited about playing with her in public using remote controlled bullet vibrator in her panties and egg inserted in vagina which will take element of surprise to intense new level! QUESTION: has anyone used those toys simultaneously??? In reading about egg, I learned it is primarily a "teasing tool" when in vagina. The bullet however, has potential for sending her to the Big O at any time. My imagination asked "so what if I use them both at same time?" My strategy is to remote start the egg to make her squirm, then when she can take no more, I fire up the bullet which is in her panties and pressed against her clit. Can't wait to try this while in a bar or busy restaurant (noise levels, both from her and toys may be noticeable). Anyone have thoughts about this? I've been practicing with remote in each hand so I can manipulate her excitement with precision.