I am 28 years old and my husband is 23. We recently got married after only being together 10 months. Things are great, even in the bedroom. He is literally the best partner I've been with. The only issue we have (in the bedroom) is getting him out of his comfort zone. Like me, he's open minded in trying new things. However, when it comes to being dominant and/or dirty talking he is super shy. If he does say something new its usually in a whisper. Sometimes he threatens to "just take it" but he has never even thrown me down and acted like he was going to do so. How do I get him out of his comfort zone or shyness? I've told him I'd like for him to throw me up against a wall or down on the bed but have had no luck just yet.