So I don't have anything yet, been planning on buying stuff for years, and now that I finally have a little freedom I am getting the chance to buy things! I live with parents who have their own things, that were found when they fell out of the closet, and are embarassed about the whole ordeal and have told me to never get anything! I have no idea if I am sensitive to silicone or water-based lubes (looking at some safe options first). Any suggestions on brands from (spencers, lions den, too timid, even grocery stores ect.) that might be a good idea to start of with?