Hi, new here names Paul and i was just wondering, how big is too big. Married for over 15 yrs and im nit average 10 1/2 length BUT my girth is around 3" i've been trying to get my wife " to take it all" balls deep. Shes too petite, not for the lack of foreplay, nor lack of time. Only can get 3/4 in her, and she does too. How do i get her to open up?!! Lol