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I agree it cant be relied on but it is nice to have as a back up. Dont you agree??

Why do sooo many people think Paris Hilton is so hot? I just dont get it!!!!!!

What was the best sex you ever had and what made it the best?? I am asking because in reading posts it seems that lots have had some down right great sex...but it turns out that they arent with that person anymore for one reason or another. That had me thinking since I have had only one partner for intercourse and I married him I may have missed out on something since I have nothing to compare lol. So again what makes sex great with some and so/so with others?? Also how could some say sex they had was awful? Isnt any sex good sex and better then none at all??? Just a question for those who know more then me lol

I can only speak for myself and I have to say I dont wake up everyday feeling sexy. I may have a bad hair day or just be in a mood thanks to pms lol...but even though those days are few and far between it helps to know that my SO or like on post said even a stranger finds me attractive/sexy. I know its all from within but its good to know that when I see myself in a non sexy way I am proved wrong,

I agree with DADT.....you have to be on the same level in order for it to not take a toll on the relationship in other ways. There were many good points made by posts here on this topic. I have to say I would rather be alone then be in a sexless marriage or a marriage where the sex is great and we have nothing else but that....to me thats just a booty call. I would feel as if I was being used...like thats all I am good for is the sex. Yes looks are a part of being sexy but lets face it....when you really get to know someone arent you more attracted to them if they stimulate you in other ways then just in the bedroom. If you can laugh and joke and really have a good conversation its all key to having a good relationship including the sex. It all goes together and you really cant have one without the other.....no matter how much you try to believe you can. I know people who have cheated and when we talked about it ...it wasnt because of the lack of sex....they had a good relationship in the bedroom...it was outside the bedroom...they just had nothing in common....and when they met someone they could have fun with etc...they were so attracted to that person that it lead to them cheating. Not that any reason is a good reason to cheat but it just shows that not all people cheat just because there is a lack of sex...it could be for lack of many other things too.

It is so brave of you to open up about your past. This is a very good place to do so. Yes by you posting you may help others if even just one person then it was well worth it. Also this is a good place to just let it all go....others will support you...and maybe even offer some advice that may help. What really helps with problems is talking about them. It may be hard to do but after all is said and done it feels like a giant weight is lifted off you. I hope you continue to see that life is what YOU make of it....YOU are the only one in charge of your life and only YOU control it. Best of luck to you for a bright and happy future.

Which toys do you have that you just dont like and why? I know I am no expert lol being that I only own one but in reading of others who own totes full it had me thinking....what is it about some that you like and others that you dont. Don't you run across one being the same as another that you already have? How many changes can be made over the years to keep them new and exciting and doing the job?

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all here at TT. As Christmas is near so is the New Year. Is there anything you would like to change in the upcoming New Year to make a New and better you? I found that in the past if you try to make to many changes I tend to fail. So this year I am going to just make some small changes that in the long run I hope will lead to bigger and better changes...Like eating more vegtables and drinking more water...instead of saying I want to lose 20lbs I hope these little changes will lead to the bigger change I want. I also really want to enjoy life and see the joy in it everday. I realized with the Holidays near that I just get to stressed and dont really enjoy the little things life has to offer....just enjoying my kids and all the little things they do. Going sledding with them the other day just to go and have some fun was a true joy for all of us. That made me think about when I yell at them for dirt on my clean carpet. Is that really something to get upset over??? Now I see its not....I am going to pick my battles and take a good step back and rethink things before I react. (or atleast that is what I am shooting for in the New Year)Trying to do everything and be everything does take its toll...and I am going to try to let somethings go or atleast try to not let all the little things get to me...it will be hard at first but I think I can do it. I am going to take time for myself....I dont do that now and I know I need to...because a better me means a better me for everyone. Like the saying goes "If mama aint happy no one is" lol. I also would like to pay it forward more.....yes I know I sound like Oprah lol...but the few things I have done in the past few weeks with helping others really made a change in the way I feel. It made me feel good and truly happy. It wasnt major things just little things like helping a elderly neighbor with her bags. Letting the mom behind me in the supermarket with the crying kids and a cart full cut infront of me in line. These little things are the things I lost somewhere along the way. I now realize that I need to teach my children to help and do more for others...just to do it...not because something maybe in it for them. Along the way Im sure I will find other changes I would like to make....but for now its a start. Again Happy Holidays to one and all!!!!!

We use to have sex everyday but kids, work and all the other things that keep us busy we are now down to about 2 or 3 times a week.

All my can goods have to be grouped and labels face out so I can see what I have. Everything in my home has its place....and if its put in the wrong place that irks me. sometimes I think my hubby and kids do things just to get me going lol....like our dogs food and water bowls....It has to be food bowl then water....if they do it the other way around I have to change it....same thing with salt and pepper shakers....if its pepper then salt that bothers me. lol this was a good topic....somethings I didnt even think of until I sat down to write this....and I am sure I have more

LOL love your posts....somethings may seem ocd but I think most of it is just being on top of things and being a good mother and wife. You werent kidding when you said 22 out of 24 hrs you are busy. lol

Even if you are in a relationship/taken....everyone wants to know if they "still got it". I know the question was asked how do you if SHE is checking you out....well I want to know how do you know if HE is. I guess I am just blind when it comes to the flirting and the looks.....Unless a guy comes right out and says "I like you" or something I dont think he even sees me. So how can a gal like me tell when she is being checked out? When I go places I always seem to notice guys checking out other girls...trust me I dont look for this it just seems to happen when I am around lol....I see them look and then turn around for another look. Then that gets me thinking...do I still have it? what do they see in others that they dont see in me? I think I get like this because Ive been married for years and after kids etc sometimes I just want to know that I still have what it takes to grab some attention.

Wow and I thought I was bad.....How many hours do you have in your day??? LOL I was tired just reading this list....More power to you girl!!!!

Have you even been told by someone ( a ex for example) that you were the "best fuck ever"? If so what makes you so much better then the others? It can seem like a silly question but I was just thinking what makes someone "the best" that the other cant seem to get over. To me this would be the most flattering comment to hear......guess it just had me thinking.....

Well i just wanted to say its nice that there are men like you in the world who arent looking for that size 0 because in the real world most of us will never be nor want to be. Too many times they go for that sterotype gal but hey us gals with curves need love too LOL.......and i agree those gals you posted pics of are pretty darn good looking.