I met my wife in the summer of 2014, I was still in the military and she attended a local college. One night a few months into our relationship we went to one of my very best friends going away party’s (he was being stationed overseas) my wife and I got in an argument that night and I left .. knowing I’d come back in the AM pick her up and everything would be okay. So forward 5 years later we are married having a few drinks on the back Porch and she admitted to me that he fucked her that night. Here are the details I got. He wore protection (even though she claims she took plan b the next day), they never kissed. She never gave him oral . But the part that really hurt was that she never has let me attempt anal and she said he slipped into her accidentally and he was huge and it will never happen again. I really don’t even know wether or not to believe her about all of the oral or kissing stuff and now I’m looking back on facebook seeing pictures of him and her from that night that she posted. Should I be mad or turned on?