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My wife has a very active fantasy life, and she often tells me about. She often gets off on imagining she is being dominated in some way.

I have never had any sort of sexual relationship with a male since I was very young, but at one point a couple of friends of mine would fool around...we were like 6 or 7 years old. I think that many boys do this. However, though I am not really attracted to men at all, from an experiential standpoint, I would like to try it. At the very least, I would be more aware of what women experience when giving head or something like that. Interestingly, I would never let a man give me head or engage in anal sex with a man.

I am open with my wife, but it doesn't turn her on to see me as much as it does to see her. She's a bit shy, but she often tells me when she's done it. I love it when we're fucking and she fingers herself. I also like to see her do it to learn what makes her feel good. Huge turn on. Incidently, when I was younger, my favorite porn was lesbian stuff, but now I get most turned on seeing women get themselves off alone.

Has anyone her ever had a mutual masturbation with someone when that was all that happened. I hear stories of guys that will do it in front of their friends while watching porn, etc., but I've never been in the situation myself. Personally I've found myself in situations watching porn with a bunch of guys (and sometime female friends, and it makes me super horny--I almost always masturbate when I watch porn, and if ther are a buch of people around, almost everyone makes a bathroom trip at one point in the night. I would find it interesting to see how otther guys do it. It would probably turn me on too, though I consider myself heterosexual. It's more like a social experience to me. I personally think it would be pretty interesting, but I have never felt comfortable bringing it up. Another question, have any of you guys ever given a blow job to a freind? I'm mainly asking the straight guys here, because I'm wondering how it felt for you.

I go through phases. Before I had regular sex, I would sometimes do it up to five time a day. It was usually fast, and often in public places like work or school...you know quickies. Now, I really love to make a thing about it. Reading some porn or browsing through this site for an hour or so before I even start touching myself. I like laying down after that with some porn (lately I've been getting imaginative and purely fantasizing about situations where I meet a stanger or voyueristing stuff) and then taking it really slow. Sroking my penis and sometimes using something in my ass like one of those new toothbrushes that vibrate. I find that anal stimulation make my orgasm much more intense. Lately I actually taste some of my cum because it turns me on for some reason. These types of sessions are about pure pleasure, not just getting off. I actually like the whole process much more than the final orgasm. I also really get into doing it in front of my wife. Even when she is not participating. It just really turns me on to think of someone wathcing me. I'd say these types of sessions usually last an hour or so, but it is hard for me to get that much time by myself. Sometimes when I'm at work alone in my office I browse the web for sexy pictures. Usually not porn because the computer guy would know. It turns me on to see women in good shape, fully dressed, but showing the contours of their bodies so I can imagine what they look like undressed. When I do this, I usually quickly jerk off. I have masturbated regularly since I was fairly young (10 years old). At first I felt embarassed...maybe even ashamed--I would never openly admit to it and I would get embarassed if someone found my porn stash. I'm old enough now to realize it is completely natural and something to really enjoy. I am very comfortable to sharing experience with other men as well as women. In fact, it is a huge turn on for to have a sexual discussion about what what my female friends think about it, how they do it, etc. I now think that people who don't (or say they don't masturbate) are doing themselves a disservice and missing out on a really pleasurable experience. There's nothing like sex with a woman (or even a hand job from a woman), but sometimes you just gotta do it yourself. The other day I did it on my way home from work. I didn't have anything to wipe up with, so I ended up just licking the cum off my hands. I like to taste my cum sometimes, but eating it all is too much. However, I love eating pussy after I cum inside, and I love it even more when my partner want a juicy kiss afterwards. I talk openly to a few of my male friends about this type of thing. As a kid, I have had sexual experience with friends, but it was pre-puberty. If I thought it wouldn't turn into a weird thing, I would like to masturbate in front of one of my friends, maybe even give head to someone. Not so much because it turns me on, but because I am interested in the experience. Why is it that many women have these types of experiences with their friends, but relatively few men do? I am not gay, and I don't think this curiosity is anything that is all that uncommon. I just don't think guys like to bring this type of thing up. What does anyone else think. Have any of you guys ever jerked off in front of other guys. Sometimes I'll visit a friend, and he'll be watching a porn, and I just get horny. I feel like asking if he minds if I masturbate, but I have never actually done it. I think when I stay in hotels, it is the best masturbation time for me. I am usually away on business, and I always do it up good. It is one of the times I always stimulate myself anally. I really love sticking something small like beads up my ass when I'm jerking off. I have asked a few of my guy friends, and many of them say they haven't done this, but they love anal sex with women. I look at anal stimulation as one of few mutual sexual experiences that men and women can both enjoy. I have tried my wifes dildo and vibe on myself, however, and it has been pain ful, so I usally use something small. I don't like fingering my ass, though. I like the fantasy of being fucked in the ass. My wife does it occassionally, but she is a little apprehensive about it. I go through phases. Before I had regular sex, I would sometimes do it up to five time a day. It was usually fast, and often in public places like work or school...you know quickies. Now, I really love to make a thing about it. Reading some porn or browsing through this site for an hour or so before I even start touching myself. I like laying down after that with some porn (lately I've been getting imaginative and purely fantasizing about situations where I meet a stanger or voyueristing stuff) and then taking it really slow. Sroking my penis and sometimes using something in my ass like one of those new toothbrushes that vibrate. I find that anal stimulation make my orgasm much more intense. Lately I actually taste some of my cum because it turns me on for some reason. These types of sessions are about pure pleasure, not just getting off. I actually like the whole process much more than the final orgasm. I also really get into doing it in front of my wife. Even when she is not participating. It just really turns me on to think of someone wathcing me. I'd say these types of sessions usually last an hour or so, but it is hard for me to get that much time by myself. Sometimes when I'm at work alone in my office I browse the web for sexy pictures. Usually not porn because the computer guy would know. It turns me on to see women in good shape, fully dressed, but showing the contours of their bodies so I can imagine what they look like undressed. When I do this, I usually quickly jerk off. I have masturbated regularly since I was fairly young (10 years old). At first I felt embarassed...maybe even ashamed, but I now think that people who don't (or say they don't masturbate) are doing themselves a disservice and missing out on a really pleasurable experience. There's nothing like sex with a woman (or even a hand job from a woman), but sometimes you just gotta do it yourself. The other day I did it on my way home from work. I didn't have anything to wipe up with, so I ended up just licking the cum off my hands. I like to taste my cum sometimes, but eating it all is too much. However, I love eating pussy after I cum inside, and I love it even more when my partner want a juicy kiss afterwards. I talk openly to a few of my male friends about this type of thing. As a kid, I have had sexual experience with friends, but it was pre-puberty. If I thought it would turn into a weird thing, I would like to masturbate in front of one of my friends, maybe even give head to someone. Not so much because it turns me on, but because I am interested in the experience. Why is it that many women have these types of experiences with their friends, but relatively few men do? I am not gay, and I don't think this curiosity is anything that is all that uncommon. I just don't think guys like to bring this type of thing up. What does anyone else think. Have any of you guys ever jerked off in front of other guys. Sometimes I'll visit a friend, and he'll be watching a porn, and I just get horny. I feel like asking if he minds if I masturbate, but I have never actually done it.

A couple women have told me that orgasms are more intense for them during their periods. Is this true generally?

I'm wondering if many men here have experienced extended orgasm. If so, do you cum? Any suggestions on how to achieve this? Is anal or prostate stimulation necessary? I've always wished I could experience a femal orgasm because they seem so much more intense. Any suggestions?

I personally don't enjoy anal sex as much as vaginal, but my wife and I have recently (for the first time with her) tried using fingers for anal stimulation. I initiated things by talking to her about extended male orgasm. She willingly did this for me while giving me a hand job, and I think it turned her on to see how good it was for me. After that, I tried it with her, and she liked it, but was a little shy to really let loose. She is a small person, and vaginal sex is intense for her at times, so I'm a little afraid to push the anal issue. However, I would love to have her use a toy (plug or beads) on me. I gues I'm just a little shy. I used to own beads, and I loved them. They were purchased by an old girlfriend for me, and when I got together with my wife, I threw them away because I didn't want her to find them. Damn..I wish I still had those beads. Every time I go to a sex shop, I want to buy some. I don't know why I don't.

My wife doesn't like to swallow (I don't often even cum in her mouth), and I'm fine with that. Personally, I get turned on by tasting her during sex, and I LOVE going down on her. However, when a woman lets me cum in her mouth, it is a huge turn on for me. I've had orgasms from blow jobs that have made my hands and arms go numb. I have tasted my own sperm, and I don't think it tastes great. I sometimes lick it off my hands after masturbating, and I often get hard again right away. I also like kissing my parnter after we have both gone down on each other. It is such a turn on, and I don't understand why my wife is so closed to the issue. Again, I don't push it. I would never want her to do something just for me...This tends to turn me off. She may come around. I just bought her the first vibe she's ever owned, and she loves it. She has a vivid fantasy life and masturbates often. I just wish she was a little 'dirtier' sometimes. From the standpoint of having an experience to relate to, I would like to give someone a blow job at some point in my life so I can put myself in the position of having done it and relating to the whole experience. Why is it that many women have sexual experiences with friends, but very few men do (at least the ones I know). I'm not gay, but I think it would be an interesting experience.

A couple times, I've had orgasms that have made my hands numb. By the way, this has only happened to me when my partner has stimulated my ass. Anyone else had this experience?

For me, confidence is the key. A confident woman knows what she wants and is not afraid to ask for it. One of my biggest turn-offs is a woman who is not honest about being a sexual being.

I can definitely understand why some women love anal sex. It feels so good. I don't understand why most of my guy friends aren't into having their female partners do it. Maybe they're just not telling me the truth, but I have a feeling it is a 'man' thing. Straight guys might look at it as being a gay thing. I have had only two partners do it to me...usually with their fingers. Once a lover tried it with one of her dildos, and it was too painful for me to get into it. Even before I lost my virginity, I have stimulated myself anally, and I love it. Recently I've read a little about prostate stimulation and extended orgasm in men. I never have that much time to get into a masturbation session, but I've always been a little jealous of the female orgasm. I think anal sex might be the way to experience something similar. Do any of the guys have any comment on this?

My experience has shown me that many women are genuinly not turned on my men masturbating. This is funny, because I love to think of my partner getting herself off. I finally bought my wife a couple toys, and she is into them, but a little shy. We both talk openly about our needs and she usually tells me when she's masturbated. I have done it many times in front of her, talking dirty, etc. I've asked her to finger my ass and she has, but I don't think she was nearly as turned on as I was. I've recently started talking to my guy friends about masturbation. I was always too uptight to do it before. Most of them tell me that their girlfriends or wives are too shy to do it front of them. Some of my friends say their wives get upset when they have caught them jerking off. I have a 9 month old son, and my wife and I have talked a little bit about how we'll raise him. If I ever catch him masturbating, I will make sure to let him know that everyone does it, and there is no reason to be ashamed. It is really too bad that our society has associated self-pleasure with guilt.

I have had better isolated experiences than I do normally with my wife. However, I have had enough sex in my life to know that fucking is fun, but making love can be a spiritual experience. I will never stop looking at and fatasizing about beautiful women, and I love looking at porn when I masturbate. I guess I'm at the point right now that when I get horny, I do not hesitate to masturbate. I am open about this with my wife, so I never really get the urge to go elsewhere.

I'm a guy, and once I tried with a banana peel. I think I read about it in Penthouse. It was okay...nothing to write home about. I have masturbated in some strange places. I love masturbation, and no matter how much sex I have, I have always masturbated. Sometimes I wish I was a woman because you girls can do it discretely almost anywhere.