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  1. Ok, my gf and I are listening to the radio in the car yesterday. The song "Squeezebox" from the "The Who" come on. She listens to the lyrics and asks "are they saying what I think they mean."? I tell her the song really has strong references to titty fucking and not vaginal intercourse as most people think. The Who had many songs with sexual tones that is still amazing got through for their time. I was surprised when she asked me what titty fucking was, so I told her. My ex let me do this now and then to her and it was a blast, but she liked it to. Any woman out there who let their man do this to them who hasn't done it before, and what got you over the hump (pun) to let him do it if you were apprehensive? Telecom
  2. Even though my gf is a lot different and more open than she used to be...she told me she just can't feel like she is really into sex like I am, or her being more assertive, or to be more vocal during sex because it makes her feel like a slut. She says she likes sex, but this slut thing really holds her back. She again goes back to telling me it must be from the way she was raised. Beside professional help, who does one grow out of that? Telecom
  3. Howard, She is my girlfriend, not wife. No plans for me to get married again for awhile. Telecom
  4. Many of you have seen my past posts about the issues I've had with my gf of two years and her hang ups with sex due to her upbringing, bad relationship with father, was taught sex was bad, bad long marraige where her ex only cared about himself, her depression, etc. She has always had problems with orgasms to. When she does have them they are very light and quick. She calls them "micro-orgasms". Well, one Sun morning a few weeks ago I got her into a position that has payed off. I'm laying on my back with my legs spread, and she is laying on me missionary position with her legs together. This is tight for both of us, so I'm sure I feel bigger to her and she is tight for me to. During this first time to do this she starts breathing very hard after a couple of mins and is saying "Oh God" many times until she is moaning a lot and then starts to go limp trying to get her breath back. She tells me after it was the best orgasm she has ever had. I'm sure the tight penetration and our pubic bones rubbing hits her clit just right. Now she is wanting sex a lot more often, pretty much everyday if possible. What a change! I've even heard her in the bathroom tub with the jacuzzi on getting off. I'm sure the water jets are doing wonders for her. I didn't tell her that I know she has done that, which is very sexy. And now I get an email from her telling me not to exercise (training on my bike) to hard this evening because I need to save energy for her tonight. Life is good. Telecom
  5. timid and shy, Is it cheating if your husband is banging or getting banged by some guy? Of course it is. Your sexual preference is your choice, that isn't the issue here. Telecom
  6. Hello All, I haven't posted in awhile, but wanted to pass on something that has always been important to me and get your feedback. I would say my last marriage failed because my ex-wife ceased to want to communicate, thus decided to have an affair with our daughters husband. Obviously that devastated our family. The ex (she is 46) now pretty much lives in poverty after blowing her settlement on her young (he was 19) lover who hit the road once the money was gone. Ex now works all the time and barely gets by and is severely depressed and is still an ourcast from both families and she lives alone. I've been with my gf for about two years and many of you know her past. She has been living with me now for about three months. She is not the type of person who communicates and will clam up unless I press her. I'll say how I feel in the most positive manner I can without being in your face. Sex has still been an up and down thing with us. Kind of like out of sync and not knowing what the other really wants. She still has the orgasm issue which can be frustrating. I told her of a dream I had about her last week where I was going down on her and she was so wet, telling me how she liked it and telling me what to do. Very sexy! She then told me she has some dreams sometimes but they aren't with me in them. She says it is some guy but she really can't see a face and she is having good sex, is uninhibitied, and just letting go. That is something she wishes she could do with me. There probably is a face, but she just doesn't want to tell me. I know woman dream about things like that, so it didn't really bother me. This out of sync thing just gets me, so last night while in bed watching TV I just started to slowly kiss her, take control, and let things build. I asked her this morning about last night and she said... "I was feeling happy yesterday and you were extremely sexy to me last night. Plus, I like you being aggressive." How do you all communicate with your signficant other? Do you like you man to be aggressive? Are you just up front about issues, spin things, etc? Telecom
  7. My gf just doesn't seem to be into toys that penetrate. We have a Fun Factory dual action toy that we have only used twice, and she told me she wasn't into the penetration part of it. She is fine with vibrators and uses them freely in front of me. I loved seeing the dual action one with her. I was thinking of getting her a dildo to, but after seeing her reaction to the dual vibe, its probably not a good idea. Other women have similar feelings? Telecom
  8. How does Timid get the models that are on the home page? Just curious. The model in red holding the rose on the home page is very hot! telecom
  9. I once caught my then 16 yr old son jacking off in his room late at night. I saw a dim light on under his bedroom door when he should have been asleep. I opened the door to tell him to get to sleep and there he is doing his business. He actually looked at me and said "c'mon dad, do you mind"? I just looked at him and said "damn Jordan, keep the door locked". The next morning I told him I have no problem doing that and its normal. I told him I did it at his age to. Its still a funny subject for us to this day and he is 21. Telecom
  10. Mikayla, That is true what you said about the money. She said she is comfortable accepting a gift from me, but her picking something herself out isn't comfortable for her. Now Valentines Day is coming up to
  11. My gf had her 46th birthday on Sunday. On her birthday, I usually always take the time to get her a gift and a card. I decided to do something different this year. I really couldn't think of anything to get her and she would never tell me. So, on her birthday morning, I made her a nice breakfast in bed and then said I'm taking you for a nice lunch at an upscale restaurant, some drinks, and a shopping spree for her to pick out something she would like. I really thought this approach would work and be something different. Well, was I wrong!! She acted kind of strange the whole day and wouldn't really say anything and didn' seem excited about it. We talked last night and she said she was dissapointed I just didn't take the time to get her a gift and that is what she would rather have. I didn't forget or not have time to get her a gift, I was just trying something different. She was appreciative of what I tried, but likes the traditional protocol better. And she said a simple card means as much as anything else. Again, a lesson learned...STAY traditional. Telecom
  12. She is 45 and doesn't plan to have kids, and I certainly don't. She has told me that her ex never told her "no" or put his foot down with limits on her dogs. It was if she was telling me she wishes her ex would have said enough is enough. Emotinally delicate is the word. VERY sensitive. I let go on her (just being honest, not yelling or anything) the other day and told her it annoys the shit out of me when we're on the couch just trying to snuggle with each other and her dogs are all over the couch on us. Like you said, they are dogs, not people. In the end, I know I'm second in her life after her dogs, but thats something I have to deal with. Telecom
  13. Tyger, Wow!! Your description was SPOT on about my gf and her relationship with her dogs. Its not to any ultimatum thing yet, so I'm not worried about that. She does feel bad about how they are stinking up the house and tries her best to remedy it. I lived alone for a year after my divorce, so I guess I need to lighten up more. I just wish she would have more discipline with them so I wouldn't have to say anything to her or walk around and see what they've done. They aren't destructive or anything. And yes, I knew what I was getting into, so I have to deal with it. Thanks all! Telecom
  14. Hello All, Since I last posted, my gf has moved in and things are better sexually. She has changed a lot. Ok, moving on to the next issue now. She has two small and very high maintenance dogs, that to be honest, I do not like. They are hairless dogs and the ugliest things you've ever seen. I have a bigger dog of my own that stays outside and I love that dog very much. One of the concessions she agreed to when she moved in was they could not sleep with us like they did at her apt. They whine, lick themselves all the time, and always kept me up. They now stay in our spare room at night, and also during the day when we are at work. I recently had new carpet put in that room also. They pee on the carpet during the day and now the room smells like urine. When you open the door, its bad. She has tried to clean it up, but it won't go away. When ever I bring it up to put them in a cage during the day, she gets upset, withdrawn, etc. She even had to pay $700 to pay after she moved out of her apt for carpet to be replaced in her bedroom since the smell was so bad. She will even cry sometimes telling me the dogs "are the only things in life" she has. Come on, they're just dogs. She has never had kids, so I guess I can see some of that. These dogs are spoiled rotten and they follow her EVERYWHERE she walks, are all over us on the couch when I would like some private time with her, etc. Its very annoying. When I let my dog in, he'llbe to himself on his blanket and leave us alone. She takes it personal when I ask her if she can put the dogs in the room for awhile so we can be on the couch to ourselves. Dogs are wonderful pets, but have to have some limits just like kids do. The dogs issues are actually starting to put stress on out relatinship. And, she has told me in the past that her dogs would always win out in any relationship. That scares me to and I take that personal. How can I deal with this more? Am I out of line? THX! Telecom
  15. Hi, I posted an update on here about this, but don't remember where. Things are much better. She is now living with me, and she is more willing sexually to. She is able to have orgasms more now, and I can tell she is into it. We have four vibes now, and she will even use them in front of me. Big time turn on!! I've learned that I just have to take control more with her, and that seems to turn her on. We're still dealing with her depression and she is a sensitive women, but I have to deal with those day-by-day. Some days are great and I can tell she is ok, other days she is quiet and has things on her mind. Those are not the days for sex, as she just isn't relaxed. I'll just be patient with her and let her know I'm here if she needs me. I'm a health nut freak and believe a healthy and in shape body can get you get you thru life easier. She is now working out with me and trying to deal with her diet better. The worst part now is my ex and my kids (17, 19, 21) don't really think she should have moved in with me. Only my 19 yr old daughter lives with me sometimes and I think she is jealous. I've been divorced 2.5 yrs and have moved on. My ex hasn't even though she is the one that had the affair (with family members husband) and that is why we're divorced. Divorce continues to create drama. Telecom
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