abruptlyactive

Hi ladies, My boyfriend and I are ready to take things to the next step. The problem is that I am a virgin and he has an above average thick penis. It's not particularly long, but it's girthy. Any advice on what I/we can do to minimize pain and prevent injury (worried about tearing). Any other advice is welcome too, just want to find out if there is anything I can do ahead of time to make it easier. Side note- we are using protection and I plan to get lube just in case. Thanks for any and all replies ladies!