Leedo

I have found as I have got older, it seems a VERY large percentage (90+%)of men, are interested in sex with men. I have never done it, but not ruling it out if the situation presented itself. The attractive aspect is not so much emotion, just physical. A man knows what feels good to his dick and anal has GOT to as good, if not better than pussy. So a nut without the emotional baggage.

I need a FWB something terrible, but few and far between!

Thank you for your reply, yes she does have orgasms. But for MANY years due to me introducing it to her. I have a silicone sleeve that goes over my dick, it doesn’t increase the girth or length, and it’s open at the end, but it has a vibrating egg, that lays right up on her clit. And she doesn’t like to be without it. I am not trying to show you my member so don’t get offended, but the picture is what I am talking about. But I would love to lick her clit I think she would like it. Before I seen this post I ask her if the next time we got naked if she would let me go down on her. She said you know I have never been into that. So I don’t think I will be able to. But thanks for the input.

I want to know the general consensus, about going down on a women. Is it better to flick the clit with your tongue, or suck it, or lick the whole thing? I want to try to get my wife to cum that way. She has always said she is not into that, but I just want to see if I can. Are there a lot of women that do not like having oral on them?

Remove the moral element from this topic of FWB, Lets say you love your spouse, and are NOT interested in changing your situation for whatever reason. And you and your spouse enjoyed sex together at some point in your relationship. Then one of you becomes less interested in sex to the point it becomes a habit, to live in the same house, sleep in the same bed, see each other getting into and out of the shower, etc... If the other one communicated that they are unhappy with there sex life, should the other one think "tough shit", its mine, and I don't feel like it! Enter a FWB, somehow the two find each other and get MUCH needed relief. They go back to there respective homes, and do not hound the other one for sex, and are happy, and the house is secure. This is the situation I am in, I have been married a long time to the same women, but she could give 2 shits about sex. A FWB, purely for sexual relief for is what I need. I think this is why hetero males get with bi men, and become bi themselves, because a guy understands this. I have NOT done this, but to be honest I have thought about it, I just want to feel warmth and enjoy the touch of another person, and am wiling to provide that for someone in like situation.

I do not know how you got a clear shot without the back of someone head in the photo. That ass was made for nibbling and licking.

It has for me, when I was young, I had a preconceived notion of what sex should be, and with whom. Now that I am older I have discovered sex is for fun, whatever that may entail as long as both parties are ok with it. I have found myself to be kinky and a WHOLE lot more open than my wife. it’s sad, she just isn’t into it.

I think it’s easier for a guy than a girl. MOST women, has to have things just right, mood has to be just right, not tired, not in there emotions, etc… A guy on the other hand, wants to have fun, not necessarily a quickly, playing, then have sex and look in the girls face and go, WOW, that was fun. And as long as both had a good time, go on down the road. Then later on, maybe send a text, and ask are you in the mood for fun? But have boundaries established before hand. I wish I could find someone like that, I have been married a long time and wife, just ain’t into it. I would love to give a friend mine in photo.

That is because she cared I think.

Yes, it’s like she just don’t want to anymore, and she is 8 years younger than me.

Thank you, for the condolences of my wife’s sex drive. If I could find a FWB, preferably in the same situation as myself, tho I WOULD , wish no hateful stuff on anyone. It would just be easier to identify with a like minded person. I am sorry for those in this situation. You know they say HE must be going through a mid life crisis! But I am not, I am just used to how it feels and just because she doesn’t want to anymore, does not help the way I feel.

Sorry!

I just have to say, IS there ANYTHING better than pussy? How warm, moist, slick it is, is mind numbing. It is a damn shame my wife don’t want to use hers.

I have heard some women get more brave as they get older, there inhibitions relent. my wife is JUST the opposite, I know it’s the same old story, but it is aggravating. I used to give her sensual massage and would still, if she let me. I use to use a strap with vibrator tip, that she said she loved. I would put a sleeve on me with a vibrating bunny ears as she sat on top, and she love it. But now all she will do is give me a quickie, which I use to appreciate, but now, I go on forever before coming because she just gets on her back, legs up in the air, and doesn’t try or is not interested in getting a nut. Of course I immediately think, she is cheating or getting hers by other means. I have tried to talk with her about it, but she won’t. Sometimes I think she is trying to get me to get it somewhere else. I am at wits end.

It has been a while since I have posted anything, but it occurred to me this morning, this not only a resource for expressing my desires, but likewise it would be a GREAT platform to pose question, and get diverse response. Question is, I have and always have had a greater sex drive than my wife, I try to take care of it myself out of necessity. But what is your opinion, regarding quickies from her to get me through until we have meaningful sex, and what I mean by that, is when she can have an orgasm as well. I am not saying a quickie every day, just maybe once a week. So time for full disclosure, I know it is selfish of me, but if she doesn't want an orgasm, and I do, and if I am just getting a quickie I can have an orgasm quickly. I enjoy, masturbating, but nothing replaces the warmth, wetness of a pussy. Even when and if my wife gives me a quickie, she get VERY wet, VERY quickly. Another question, is it wrong for me to get aggravated when my wife does not want meaningful sex or give me a quickie? I am not looking for sympathy, just a genuine opinion. It is just a good thing, I have not had the opportunity to have friend with benefits.