Wow, Howard, that was really rude. Whether she's a minor or not, being a virgin isn't a bad thing. At least she's not sleeping around with every Tom, Dick, and Harry she sees. I can understand where she's coming from, because I, too, am a virgin. It's not because I "don't want to get educated" or anything, but because of the few relationships I've had. But even if I hadn't had so few relationships, and I had had tons of them, I still wouldn't just have sex to have sex. I want to wait until I find the right person. And also, how can you say she's not being very serious? She obviously came here looking for advice. If you ask me, you're the one who's not being serious. You really need to stop and think about the other person's situation before you make a reply like that.