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Ah, yes, mistakes. I have a list. But only one, I remember. I'd have to say that my biggest mistake in my current relationship is that I have a bad habit of not speaking up when I'm unhappy/disastisfied/etc because I don't want to be difficult. I don't want to be so annoying that I lose him. Now, the logical part of my brain screams "Are you CRAZY? You're the best partner he's ever had!" but naturally the logical side of my brain gets ignored. We've actually had a number of arguments because I didn't voice my irritation with something - either sexual or otherwise - and then just sat on it and sat on it until resentment built. And usually when I finally got fed up and said something, he would just ask why I hadn't said so in the first place and adjustments would be made. Still working on this quirk of mine, but I think I'm getting better.

I am intrigued. I've been in the market for something new - may have to give this one a try.

Aw, the switches all get thrown into one category together! We're not special enough to have separate genders, apparently. I kid, I kid. Switch with heavy dom leanings.

Never, NEVER stay with someone just because they're willing to stay with you. And don't mistake "caring" for "convenient". Frankly, from what you've told us, it really doesn't sound like this guy cares about you. And I have to agree with Tyger, the "is he in the closet" question comes to mind. Find someone who wants you, really wants you. Not just someone who's there because it's easy.

This isn't something I've done intentionally, but I've been told by male friends that there's something fascinating about the way I eat Hostess cupcakes - I have a tendency to nibble my way to the middle, lick out the filling, then finish the rest.

I have a stuffed dolphin almost as big as I am - my love sent it to me when he had to move to Seattle to take up his usual space in the bed.

My tubal was one of the happiest things I've done. Out patient, quick and easy, on tiny little lightning bolt of a scar in my belly button that you can't even see without some pretty close examination. And best of all, no more worry (as I seem to be pretty fertile, having gotten pregnant on two different forms of birth control).

trashy.com has some of the best costume-style outfits I've ever encountered. Most of them are exactly what you'd expect, but they have a few that are just fantastic. They used to have this one vinyl Snow White piece that I would have purchased in a heartbeat - and then scandalized the neighborhood with - were I more comfortable with my midsection.

While I feel silly admitting to it, I have never had the courage to suggest this with my current partner. Something similar used to occur with my ex where I would watch and press against his side while he masturbated, but even that only happened when we'd been going for so long that I was too sore to let him continue. I am curious as to whether or not others have found this arousing or even just a decent educational experience.

Y'know, I have never understood why women were aroused by hot boy on boy action. I mean, in most cases, if two guys are into each other, you will never be included. I just do not understand the appeal behind something that I can't participate in. For the record, it's not that it turns me off, it just does nothing for me. Of course, I don't much care for porn either, so I suppose that's just me. Now, stick me in between the two guys, and we have a fantasy I can work with.

Something that works for me is to really take my time teasing with light licks or even just letting my lips brush against the skin of his cock. I make sure to keep this up for a decent length of time - though certainly not too long - before leaning in and actually taking his shaft in my mouth. The reaction that I get when I do so is generally pretty strong, and very satisfying.

I once packed up a few of my friends and embarked on a fieldtrip one night to every porn/toy store in town that was still open. I was looking for something specific (a blue tickler of all things - had to be blue, and that's what kept messing me up). One guy and two girls not counting myself. It was oodles of fun. We almost drove up to Denver, as they have several all night stores with decent selections, but everyone decided at the last minute that it was too late.

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Well, given the long distance business, all I do these days is go out without my partner. However, even when we were together far more often, there were a number of times where he wasn't interested in my chosen activity for the evening, so I welcomed him to hang out with the guys while I went off to go dancing with the girls. I'd usually tease him about how many times I got hit on when I got home, and he'd laugh, make a snarky comment, and re-establish his claim on me. All in all, a fun time was had. I've had plenty of friends who didn't bother with a social life outside of their SO, and expected them to do the same. Not a one of these couples are still together.

Is "long-ish" a good answer? I enjoy enough hair to play with, grab hold of, etc, but I have a history of telling guys that if we dated I'd cut off their hair because it was longer than mine.