Tyger

I would agree. I think that his anxiety may be due to the "I'm cheating on my wife" aspect. If he's as a quality of a man as you put him out there to be, he could've been hindered by his guilt. That said, I'm glad you're not going to pine away waiting for him. Trust me, I went back with an ex, after about 10 yrs, and we were going on teenager feelings. I married him, and divorced him shortly after (were together for 4 yrs). People DO grow, it may not be for the better, but you're both definitely not the same people you were 19 yrs ago. Sure, it's nice to work out those feelings, but you usually get hurt in the end.

WTH??? LOL

GRRRRRR!! Duplicate.

Hmmm, the WORST sex toy I have ever bought.......I think it would have to be that golden bee/butterfly thing that I got when I was about 25. I've seen it in stores, still packaged the same and everything. But, it was highly disappointing. Vibes were too soft, buzz-sound was too high, and it didn't....hit.....the......right......spot.....damnit!!! LOL Here's a pic of it (they don't sell it here on TT).

I LOVE my Lucid Dream #14, and recommend it to all my open-to-sex-toys-friends!!!!

I LOVE my Lucid Dream #14, and recommend it to all my open-to-sex-toys-friends!!!!

Yes & yes.

How did I miss this thread? Soft core porn is easy to come by if you have the HBO channel. I've heard, though I haven't seen it yet, that the True Blood series is pretty graphic for stuff that's on TV.

Yes, we are soooooo screwed!!!

Ok, I admit it, I’ve switched sides! As in, I have a new Vivid Girl fave, and that gal is Tera Patrick! I’ve only gotten to view her in clips, never in a feature film, until now. She’s always intrigued me, with her exotic looks, large breasts, pouty lips, almond-shaped eyes, & gorgeously long, dark hair. I think I’m at a “brunettes do it better” stage right now! Anyway, this 2 hour adult film is not a collection of clips, but rather porn-with-a-plot, with a few clips that tie in really well with the movie, and it’s really not a bad plot either. Tera is a lingerie model, and so are the other sexy ladies that grace the screen. Stars such as Lanny Barby, Penny Flame, Ava Romon, Chloe Morgan, Shy Love, and many more gorgeous bods to gander at. Plus, the men, oh. My. Gawd! Tommy Gunn, Steven St. Croix, Jean Val Jean (who is a HOTTIEEEEE!), & more. The modeling business is cutthroat, hard, harsh, and you have to be on your toes (and seemingly on your back, knees, or whatever other position you can think of to get, um, ahead) to survive all the backstabbing. We’re at a convention, which even includes a fashion reporter, Sissy, trying to get the latest dirt on all of the designers & models. And, there’s a lot of nice, um, racks….& I’m not just talkin’ the clothes darlin’! Tera wants to attempt to go out on her own, as her own boss again. Her first attempt was soiled by her ex, who’s now in jail….or is he? Tera will do whatever, & whoever she has to, to get her way, & the ladies that are her competition, will stop at nothing to get their ways as well. Competition is fierce, & so are the sex scenes! There are many scenes to tempt your fancy. Jean Val Jean, is French, (go figure), and, let’s face it, the long dirty blonde hair just does it for me……ok, maybe I like my women brunette, & my men blonde? Anyway, Jean is use to getting his way, and attempts to seduce every woman he comes in contact with. You have 3-somes, 2-somes, a “gay” guy who just has to have 2 girls, lesbian scenes, facial shots, a 1st time anal shot for one of the stars, & lots of flirtations going on all around. After all, what’s the best place to fulfill fantasies, but at a lingerie convention? Who does Tara end up becoming partners with? Get the film, & go down, down, down to the Fashion Underground to find out! http://www.tootimid.com/fashion-underground.html View all of Tera Patrick DVDs

I personally think Mikayla landed the point right on the head well. Men fantasize. If he says that he doesn't want to do this without your consent, and it's obvious you don't want to do it, then don't. If you do it out of feeling guilty, you WILL grow to resent him, the other girl, and yourself, which will, in fact, kill your marriage. Also, he may not be wording it right. He may have the fantasy, but, if it was a NEED, like water, air, food, clothes, then he should've fulfilled that NEED before he married you. Besides, you can point out the obvious: YOU are the younger hottie!! HELLO? He married his fantasy! Bring THAT to his attention. Maybe dress up as an 18 yr old, even just jeans, t-shirt, and a visible thong. Do your hair, nails, and make up using a teen magazine. Have some fun with it, and seduce him as a teenager. Act giddy, shy, and a bit niave. Have fun with it.

I'm not too picky when it comes to how asthetically pleasing a toy is, but this thing looked a bit, um, diseased. I've never seen a tongue look like that. LMAO We don't have it here on TooTimid, however, I did pull up the information from another site I sometimes go to for you: Lady Calston offers this pleasurable waterproof vibrator, the Flex Tongue. This phthalate-free dual action vibrator is densely textured with bumps across both the shaft and clitoral stimulator. The flexible tongue-shaped shaft bends to any position desired for accurate clitoral or G-spot stimulation. The soft jelly material also has vibrating motors located in both the clitoral attachment and just below the tip of the tongue for maximum pleasure. Simply twist the dial found at the base, and intensify or reduce the speed of vibration. The Flex Tongue enables a woman to enjoy self-pleasure or couple play from every angle. Available in both a soft purple or a sparkling pink color to suit your preferences. Product code: LC500. Material / Texture: Material:Jelly .Material safety: .Texture:Studded ..Design / Shape / Size: Length:9" .Insertable length:5 1/2" .Circumference:4 1/2" .Diameter:1 3/8" .Clitoral attachment shape:Non-animal .Weight:0.5 lb

LOL Well, welcome back. May I suggest you get an Internet Address book, so you can keep track of those things? I have one, and it's a life saver! Trust me!!!!

LOL I love the milk/cow saying! Cute!! OK, say it with me, "My name is Tyger, and I AM a Facebook addict!" LOL

Yes, I meant that some women actually do feel like they're not "as good of a mother" if they can't deliver naturally, and yes, if they can't breastfeed their babies. It happens, and there's not much changing a woman's mind once the "guilt" sets in. It's very hard to suppress thousands of years of instinct, and what you're suppose to do. My personal philosophy is that, in my case, I had to deliver her via c-section. Most people think it's due to my back, which IS bad, but, it's due to my having herpes, and I didn't want to risk her being blind. So, a bit of scarring, the occassional twitch of pain in my back where I got my shot, is much better than having her blind, and feeling that guilt all my life. So, I personally never doubted my decision, & neither did my hubby. As long as she's happy & healthy, that's all that I care about.

Yes, I meant that some women actually do feel like they're not "as good of a mother" if they can't deliver naturally, and yes, if they can't breastfeed their babies. It happens, and there's not much changing a woman's mind once the "guilt" sets in. It's very hard to suppress thousands of years of instinct, and what you're suppose to do. My personal philosophy is that, in my case, I had to deliver her via c-section. Most people think it's due to my back, which IS bad, but, it's due to my having herpes, and I didn't want to risk her being blind. So, a bit of scarring, the occassional twitch of pain in my back where I got my shot, is much better than having her blind, and feeling that guilt all my life. So, I personally never doubted my decision, & neither did my hubby. As long as she's happy & healthy, that's all that I care about.

It's unfair of her to expect you to put up with that. If her ex cheated, and now she's allowing her current to just come waltzing in whenever he pleases, which, yes it's very very disrespectful of both of them to do/allow, then she is probably going to think he's cheating. She sounds very insecure, and not wanting to be alone, like she only feels complete with a man in her life. Plain & simple, you have 3 choices, since you signed a lease: *talk with her and tell her that it's unfair that he's always there, you don't feel like you have your space, which you SIGNED A LEASE for (so you have EVERY right to do this), and there needs to be limits on when he comes by, like, only when she's home. Because, think about it, would she be so tolerant if YOU were the one doing this? * Tell her that either y'all start splitting the rent 3 ways since he's always there, and that's NOT what you signed up for. *Or you could leave. However, be aware, since you signed a lease, you will be responsible for taking your name off of it, or you may have to continue the lease, paying for the space that you are no longer in.

Well, again, as an experienced c-sectioner, yes, you HAVE been sliced, AND diced. Every once in a while, even almost 8 yrs later, if someone pushes on the spot I had the epidural, that spot HURTS. You had both inscisions, and so have more "damage" done to your body. Let's face it, women weren't meant to have babies that way. Get some vitamin E oil or lotion, and once your scabs are gone, use that to moisturize and help the scar heal better. You'll always have a scar, but, think of it as a badge of honor. To this day, even though I didn't give birth naturally, I consider myself an awesome mother. The nurses made it out to be a big deal, since many women think that they failed their kids, since having to have them by c-section. It's NOT a failur, or anything to be ashamed of, or any less sexy, IMHO. *hugs*

I had my daughter, via c-section, though only horizontally. That immediate area is still numb. I don't think that the nerves ever fully grow back. But it shouldn't affect your sexuality.

AWESOME!!!!! Let us know what you think after you try it!

You can also go to a sex toy shop, and have them plug one in for you. The Lelo company has a gorgeous display case for them, and most shops are glad to have you see how that works, especially for the $$ you'd have to pay for it. Then, you can always come back here to purchase. I find that the guarantee that TT offers far outweighs any small savings that you'd get at a sex toy shop, which, BTW, from my experience, is very little, but often NONE. It's kinda funny, how I can point to something at a shop, and say "TooTimid's cheaper....." LOL But, I'm always up for a good deal, saving money, and doing, um, research!!!

As you will get to learn upon reading reviews (of mine), I am very very very picky about my vibes, the stronger the better, so, this model has some really good vibes. Not the strongest I've had, but definitely worth it. I'm not sure, but, I think that some people may not get the full vibe strength with their rechargables because they don't let it FULLY charge first. And, rechargable batteries do tend to wear down faster, in my experience. So, there's that to consider. But, they DO recharge, and so you don't have to keep replacing them.....

It has 5 modes, and you CAN use this externally, however when I think of external vibes things for clit stimulation, internal in the va-jay-jay. This toy is curved, & designed got g-spot fun (internal), but you can use it all over your body.

Check out the items here, many of which some of us Reviewers have tried out. First, go to the top, and enter in Vibrator, then go from there. If the item has been reviewed by one of our regular members and/or Review Team, there will usually be a more detailed review here on the Forum as well (we're limited on space on the shopping site, so some details are editted out). Then, if you see an item that HAS been reviewed, but would like more info, feel free to post a question either on that toy's review (on the forum), or even PM the person that reviewed it. I know, personally, I've reviewed several items. So, unless it's a fairly recent one, pulling it out from my memory *laugh* is hard. One I will recommend is the Lucid Dream #14. http://shop.tootimid.com/lucid-dream-14.aspx Though it doesn't have any clit stimulation, you can use this, along with a favorite bullet (or none at all) for a fantastic G-Spot orgasm. I've recommended this to many friends, who have tried it and LOVED it. Read the Review on it here on the Forum, and see how if those help fit your needs. Reviews:

I haven't reviewed THIS particular product, however, I have tried the Earthly Body Hemp Seed lotion AND the Glow Oil fragrance spray, and I can tell you that this stuff is AWESOME! I had the same scents in both, and, when used together, they complimented each other VERY well, lasted a long time, and the lotion did NOT leave a greasy residue on my hands. Plus, one of my BIGGEST personal pet peeves is dry hands. Can't. Stand. 'Em. Nope, can't. This stuff lasted a very long time (in the winter). I ran out of the lotion, and have been looking for more! YAY!!! Plus, it's all natural, so, I wasn't worried about any allergic reactions either. I don't like smelling "artificial". I LOVE earthy scents that smell fresh & energetic. They both pleased me in that way immensely! So, I haven't tried all 3 items, but if you're wondering, the 2 I mentioned are worth the risk of the 3rd, IMHO. http://shop.tootimid.com/skinny-mini-travel-set.aspx