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My hubby would love that.....he is always trying to get my to do DP more ofter. I think that is something I am going to have to put on the list. Good review!!!

Bongos, There maybe a few reasons why your wife has no libido, considering her age have you considered that it could be menopause. If she is on any kind of hormone treatment that can make your libido drop to nothing. Now I am not talking from experience but I do know a few people that have suffered from this. You would also have to consider different medications that she may be on. These could explain the drop in libido. Now as for giving you a blow job, I have a sister in law who is like that and I have never understood the issue, I read that you have tried to talk to her about it and she gets defensive. The only thing I can tell you is maybe you should withhold giving it to her and see what happens. I know that is how it is in my marriage, if one doesn't give the other doesn't get it. I would still try and talk to her calmly, and keep communications open. Try communicating about other things first, make her feel comfortable. The very carefully approach the subject. Keep us informed and let us know how you are doing.

Have had road sex a couple of times....It is always fun. I have to think back to the last we were crazy in the car and that would be when my HB brought along a bullet vibe and we played with the remote all day. Needless to say by the time we got home clothes wre flying everywhere. The craziest thing lately would be having sex in new places, which is always fun. My HB loves to drive me crazy in public places, like Walmart and Target. He will just call my name from 10 feet away and be like " Hey Hon....I wanna fuck ya later" AWWWWWWW isn't he romantic...lmao The only thing it does is embarrass me and make me look to see if anybody heard. But he loves to do those kind of things....lol

Foreplay can last anywhere from about 20 minutes to hours, it all depends on if the kids are home and how late it is. The earlier in the night it is the longer the foreplay lasts, is usually how it goes. But I have to admit that usually we will have sex and forplay for an average of 1-2 hours. But then again there are times when we just want that quicky!!!

1. What drives you buck wild in the bedroom? --When my HB can't seem to get enough. 2. What totally turns you off in the bedroom? --When the kids start knocking or just walk on in to the bedroom. 3. What is your favorite type of sexual experience? (ex straight, doggie, oral, bondage, etc...) --Doggie or me on top, especially when he starts takling dirty. 4. What makes you hard (Men) or wet (Ladies)? --When HB kisses my neck that's it I am done. It can actually make have an orgasm sometimes. OK....He needs to come home, just thinking about it...lol 5. What is one tip or idea you'd like to pass on to everyone here? --ALWAYS be open and willing to explore your sexual side and nothing is more important that trust when it comes to sex.

You have received some great advice from everyone as usual. The only thing I can add is that I have been in your position, my first husband was the same way. I found it very hurtful and like I was doing something wrong or there was something wrong with me. You should try and talk to him about it, but make sure you talk when there are no distractions and keep calm and don't push the subject. I know this is upsetting and I really do feel for you. Like I have seen in a lot of replies, there is always the possibility that somewhere down the line that this may pull you apart. You always have a choice, maybe showing him this site might help him realize that you are trying to make your sex life better and are willing to try new things with him.. Maybe if you reassure him in some way that you want to become closer to him and by exploring sex is a way to become closer. But before you do anything just try and reassure him that you are happy with him and show him that in different ways ( not sexually). There is also nothing wrong with masterbation!!! My hubby is on the road 5-6 days a week and we still find a way to talk about sex and I even masterbate while on the phone with him. It is so HOT!!! It just wants him to come home sooner and have sex when he walks in the door...lol I hope this helps you in some way. If you have any questions or just want to chat about it you can PM me at anytime.

I like all kinds of porn, girl on girl, straight but I really don't like gay porn. It does nothing for me. But I have to admit I love to watch people really into it. That makes me really hot!!! Besides, my hubby loves to watch porn. My favorite porn is Camp Cuddly Pines Powertool Massacre, it is funny as hell and has some great scenes in it. It is sold on the site here. If you love horror movie spoofs then you will love this porn. Camp Cuddly Pines

I always use a water-based lube for all my toys, my favorite lube is the O'My brand right now. I just love this lube, it is great for everything from vaginal to anal, and comes in alot of different flavors. You can read the reviews on this product here is the link O'My Lubes Have fun with this toy, I have had it for a few years now and believe it or not it is still on the top of the toy box and I have never had a problem with it. Just remember it is Not returnable, so just be sure you realize how BIG it really is.

Tyger, Yes there are nubbies on the bottom of the massager, but like I said in the review they are made of a hard plastic. Not exactly something you would want to use on any kind of sensative areas. Yes, the massager vibrates as well that is where the batteries are located and you just plug the bullet into the massager. Truly, it is very powerful and someone wants just a very powerful bullet then this is great. I think I was just disappointed that the massager was such a hard piece of plastic and very loud. But like I said, If you don't care about noise then this is perfect. Sorry if I wasn't clear enough about the massager.

The purple massager Well when I first opened my box from Tootimid I was very curious about the massager. It looked very unusual, to say the least. I kept trying to figure out how besides sitting on my hubby’s back that this could work like I wanted it to. Let’s start with the specifics, this vibe is a bullet and connects by wire to a back massager. The problem I had with massager was that it is made of very hard plastic. Not really something you would want to use to massage any sensitive areas. The massager takes 4 AAA batteries and to be quite honest it is very loud, so if you have a roommates or guests, turn up the radio if you don’t want them to know what you are up to. But while the vibe makes a lot of noise, it is very powerful. Within seconds of placing this little bullet on my clit I was ready to have a powerful orgasm. Which if you look at it isn’t that what a really great toy is about. I would recommend this vibe to anyone who isn’t bothered by the noise, and who doesn’t intend to use the massager for any delicate parts of the body. It is very easy to use and is good for anyone who from beginner to experienced users. purple massager

Thank you, I really love the Karma Sutra Brand. Have you tried any of the other products from them? I have only tried a few and I recommend those to everyone I know.

Karma Sutra Love Essentials kit The Karma Sutra Love Essentials Kit is a wonderful. My hubby and I were curious about the Karma Sutra line since this was the first time using the oils and honeysuckle dust. Everything smells really nice and sexy, I couldn’t get over how everything had its own fragrance, and yet all of the smells didn’t make you feel like you were in stores perfume department. They both complimented each other. The oil is very nice and makes giving a massage even more pleasurable. As I massaged my hubby’s back we both became surrounded by the sweet smells of the oil. When I finished with his back I of course worked my way around the front and began to lightly dust the Honeysuckle dust on his chest. The dust plays tricks with your senses it smells like honeysuckle and yet tasted sweet. I just loved the combination and kept applying more with the feather and would lick off. The lube is great not to thick and just the right amount of consistency, it’s perfect for a slippery night between the sheets. I would recommend this product to anyone looking to inspire some romance or give someone the gift of romance. The Karma Sutra Love Essentials Kit makes you want to explore every part of your partner’s body, to enjoy the feeling of being massaged with just a hint of warmth, to be tickled with just a touch of a feather, and to be kissed with just a hint of sweetness. Now who wouldn't want that for a night of love making?

Katt, OMG!!! I have tattoo's and I would think that would hurt just a little too much for me. Then again, my next one is going on my fooot and I heard that hurts a good bit too. But I gotta say my hubby would love something like that...lol Very Sexy!!

You are quite welcome. Anytime you have a question feel free to ask the forum, there is always great advice on here. Coupleofmaniacs