Hi for whoever decides to read this. My discussion is pretty simple. It is SO hard to get my gf off, whether its oral, sex, or whatever. For me...its no problem...in fact to fast, but hey, thats not the point. hehe. I would do anything it takes to get her off, i have no problem with that, it just takes so long. She tells me that if i do give her oral sex, she likes me to stay in the exact same place??! I always thought its better to change it up a little? Also with sex, the only real time she can get off is when im on top, which is okay, it just gets kinda boring for me over time. I read all of these articles on G-spot ejaculation and stuff, and i tried it but i got really no results. Hell, maybe i was doing it wrong...hehe I finally bought her a vibrater and she tends to like that, but its still not as good as obviosuly sex or oral sex. Also, i am the first guy she has ever done anything sexual with and before me, she never experimented with her self or anything at all. If anyone has any advice on how to make her enjoy it a lot more and maybe a little less stressful on me, please let me know. Thanx!!