thanks so much for your quick reply..... he has indicated that he will take it slow and be gentle... I did read through EVERYTHING so I think I must want this as much as he does.....his size does worry me though... and yes, it is thick as well.... I am truly a lucky woman.... a man with a cock like that who can fuck is a rare gem, and I give him as much as he wants when he wants it! We have ordered some good lube and I think I may purchase some toys.... I want this to be the experience of a lifetime for both of us! He will be over a bit later, so even though this might not be "the night" for our anal encounter, I know that I will be getting and giving fabulous sex in a few hours, and I am going to approach him with this new information! Thanks again, and good luck!