I have been trying for two weeks to stimulate my husbands prostrate into orgasm. I’ve tried fingers and I bought a vibe p spot massager. He wants this but he’s not as vocal as I’d like. I feel like while I’m doing this he should be directing me. Am I supposed to just hold the vibe or move it in and out too? My fingers as well… I rub my finger on it but should I be moving the finger in and out as well ? I really want this to happen. I just don’t know what I’m doing wrong. Any help appreciated