WifeMomSlave

Only once. I had a boyfriend that I thought I was in love with, but it was just young puppy love. I fell in love with my now husband my jounior year of highschool. We have been togeather 15 years and marrried for 12 years.

Okay, this is something that has always been an issues for me. I love to suck hubby's cock, but I can not swallow is cum. I have tried many, many times, but it always makes me gag. It is more the consistency than the taste. I do have a sensitive gag reflex, and would love to gt over this, any ideas? Any one else have issues with this?

Wanna go again?

Cock

lol...good one!

A simple and fun game. What would you say if you woke up in bed with the person above you?

meat

Nope TPBM is still fantasizing about their that sexual encounter.

Thanks so much for all the advice. I do not think a munch is for us right now, well hubby anyway, after looking into it more. I will check out fetlife. I did find a really good BDSM site, BDSM Library. It has really good forums, chat rooms, and good info.

Munchies huh? never heard of that..then again I am very new to all of this...... but eager to learn. Thanks I will have to see what I can find.

I have read your articles before, they are very good. I have a good idea of what is involved. I do know there are different levels, I want to start out slowly, we already do a lot of teasing and some denial, just have never brought bondage into play. I would ultimately like to work up to light whips, paddles, clamps and such. depending on if and how far hubby is willing to go. As much as I want to explore this, hubby's comfort level is most important. Would never ask him to do something he was not totally on board with. I do plan on showing him the article you wrote, I am looking for a bit of a broad spectrum of info from different sources so that he can make an informed decision on if this is for him. Good info an anything is always a good idea, especially when getting into this. I feel like just me telling him the basic things I know about it that he may feel like I am trying to talk him into it, which I guess I am to a point, but have never made a big deal about it or pushed the issue. Although lately I have felt a very strong desire to explore this, even almost a need to.

I have been very interested in BDSM for sometime now. It has always been sort of a fantasy of mine that I sooo want to become a reality, but have never pursued. The main reason is hubby is fairly conservative when it comes to sex, and not really a take charge kind of guy. I know he has the ability to do this, even get the feeling that the Dom in him want to come out. We have talked about it several different times, and it always ends with him not being comfortable, so I drop it. I turned 31 in November, and true to the rumors my sex drive has been on over drive, much to hubbys delight! Now as far as toys and different positions and places, he has always been game...he even wants to get a swing..WOOHOO! Well, we were having another discussion about it the other day, and looking on line at some pics and vidio clips, and for the first time I realized that he has the wrong idea about BDSM. When ever we talked about it before he would just say that he is in no way into it, and would drop it. He is not a big talker, and getting him to talk is hard sometimes. He grew up in a very conservative family, where even the idea of toys was very taboo. I grew up that way too, I am just more open minded. Okay, all that said, I was wondering if anyone knew of some good BDSM info sites that I could share with hubby to better inform him of what this is is all about. I think if I can help break down some of the sterotypes, and show him that is does not solely involve the really hard core side of it. I find almost all aspects of BDSM to be very hot, but I want to try to ease him into this.

Stop

Yeah, I get where you are coming from. I was written for your hubby, so maybe changing it just feels wrong. I think another steamy story is in order for the rest of us!

Hubby has never turned down a blow job, morning, noon, or night. I think waking up to my mouth loving his cock is his favorite way to wake up! YES,YES,and YES! I love to be woken up with oral........mmmmmm nothing like it! I am a heavy sleeper, so hubby usually has been going at it for a min before I wake up, and what wonderful sensation to wake up to! A few times I have woken up to am orgasm...it was awesome...having to decide if it was a dream or really happening...then tto find out that it is real....mmmmm.