She is quite timid when it comes to sex toys, her mother pretty much beat it into her head that masturbation is a horrid thing and should never be done. Well that was years ago, and I've been trying to get my wife to get a little more interested in sex. It isnt exactly the easiest thing I have done, she is quite stubborn. So about a year ago, I had an idea, I got her to go to a adult store with me to pick up some lube and condoms or whatever, then I saw a "grab bag" and thought maybe the stuff inside would pique her interest... it sort of worked and I got her to use a sex toy for the first time, trouble is, the toy isnt a nice one at all, just a small piece of plastic with a weak motor and all that not so great stuff. My question is, since I got her to finally open up, she says "They're your sex toys, because you like using them on me more than I like using them." but that is totally not the case, she has an orgasm every time I either watch her use it or use it on her myself... First question: Why wont she admit she likes it? Could she still be hung up on her mothers words from over 10 years ago? Second question: If I get her a new toy to hopefully open her eyes a little more, what would be the best thing?