bluelight

I'm 27 and not yet married. I want to be married but can't find the right guy I guess. I've only been with one man so I'm very inexperienced and that's okay I would rathing gain experience through marriage. One of my coworkers said the other day that when you get older and I'm assuming he just meant from middle age to senior. He said that as you get older you want sex less and less. Well that scared me because i haven't even had any good sex yet and what if it takes me until i'm 40 or older to get married. Will I, by then, not even be interested in sex as much as I am now in my 20's? I hope that me and my future husband can have a good and healthy sex life forever. Is there truth to this?

I have only had sex twice so I 'm brand new to everything. I seem to be too short to be on top. My knees don't reach the bed when I'm on top so all my body weight just rests on my guy. Exactly what am I supposed to do to make this work.

Thanks so much for the advice. Hopefully I can get through this with at least a bit of dignity. I haven't ever really felt like an adult yet since i'm 26. I know that i am but i've mostly still felt very much like a kid. this is the first time i have really felt like an adult, and i dont' mean because i've had sex but because i really messed up and now i have to deal with it on my own. i guess this is a growth oportunity that will hopefuly help me make better decisions in the future. !!

I lost my virginity yesterday. I'm 26 he's 59. (please don't say gross I know he's way older than me) He's married. I thought for some reason that I could handle a no strings attached kind of relationship, just sex no emotions. I have no idea what I was thinking. I have never ever done anything like this before. I wanted to wait until I was married I just got swept away and lost myself. We've been fooling around for a week 1/2 but no actuall intercourse until yesterday. I need to tell him that I can't see him like that anymore. I work with him and I see him everyday. Will we still be able to be friends or will it always be wierd around him now. I have a lot of regrets and hope that he will understand why I can't continue to have sex with him. He left right after and he hasn't brought it up today at all we've just talked like normal like nothing has happened. How can I tell him I can't see him like this anymore? Do you think we can still be friends? Do you think that he will never respect me now? This is going to be something really difficult to get over. Any advice?

I have only tasted pre-cum so far. Does it taste the same as when he actually cums?

I gave a blow job for the first time yesterday. He wanted me to bite the head of his penis. It was soft at the time, I assume he needed me to bite him to get him hard. He wanted me to bite the head pretty hard and he wanted to feel my teeth all over his penis. Do men usualy want thier penis bitten? I'm a virgin but we've been fooling around for abouta week and I'll soon not be a virgin so this is all new to me. He even wanted me to use my back teeth to bite him. If he likes his penis bitten does this mean he is probably going to want rough sex?

I have my first blowjob today. I have to admit I thought it was a little gross. He didn't cum in my mouth but I guess I got some pre-cum. It tasted really bad to me. I am willing to get past it because I want to do good for him. After I give him oral sex regularly and it's not something new to me will I feel better about it. I, of course did not tell him I didn't like it because he is so generous in pleasuring me, it's only fair for me to return the favor.

I just gave a blowjob for the first time today. I'm also a virgin so I don't have a clue what I'm dong really. Well, he wanted me to use my teeth on his head. He actually wanted me to bite the head of his penis several times. I was a bit squeemish because I thought that would be painful. Do men usually want their penis to be bitten? And does this mean that he's probably going to want rough sex?

Thank you so much that makes me feel a lot better. I really want to wait until i'm married to have sex. I had no idea i would be 26 years old and not married but i guess it just happens. I don't want to settle for the first guy that comes along. i don't think i could survive without a little help from some of my toys. it's hard being a grown woman and a virgin. I want to wait till im married but i'm not a nun either. thanks

I was just wondering do a lot of virgin women use sex toys. I'm a virgin and I have a coulple of dildos and so I wondered if other virgins also use them. If a virgin can use a dildo then I guess they won't have any pain the first time they have sex right?

Thanks for all your help. I already feel a lot more confident. If I'm confident and comforable with myself then any guy should be too and if not I guess he's not for me anyway. I'll work on loving myself more and be proud of what makes me unique. I guess sometimes we just all need a little encouragement to give us a boost. Thanks!

I am so uncomfortable with my labia size, mine are not huge but they do protrude past my outer labia and hang down a bit. I do not look like the women in playboy. Do men care about labia size. Would they look at me and think i'm unattractive because of my labia size. Are men turned off by labia size. I'm a virgin so no man has seen me naked yet and i'm actually afraid to get naked in front of a man because of it. What do you think?