CattieGirl

OK, I have to admit that I'm already REALLLYYY hooked on that new tv show Dirty Sexy Money. In this week's episode, they made a reference to a sex position called "The Italian Banker". Now my question is, what is it? My search on the net didn't come up with anything useful, so I'm hoping maybe someone here can enlighten me.

You'd be surprised how much of this stuff is probably already going on in your local areas. I live in Indianapolis and there is a good sized conference held here each year. You'd never know about it, unless you are active in the local "community". This is to keep the place safe for attendees and so that you don't have people just crashing in on the events. Typically, you have to reserve your spot at the convention, then details are released to you. Additionally, local communities usually have a monthly "munch" or "slosh" which allows people active in the community to get together and have dinner/drinks/etc. I know my local one usually also has a guest speaker at such events. So you not only get to meet people who have interests similar to your own, but you also get to learn about new things that you may never have thought of exploring! If you are wanting to get more involved in your local community and don't know where to begin, I would suggest doing a search on yahoo groups. Many local communities use groups like yahoo to communicate events and it is a good way to learn more about the community at large. Good luck on your quest! Cat

I'm with Kris on this one! I absolutely love to be bitten!!! Breasts, labia, neck, butt, it's all good! Doesn't have to be in an obviously erogenous zone to get me going either. A little nip on the inside of the wrist is enough to get me going. Enjoy it all- up to and including biting my nipples and clit. I even like seeing the marks that are sometimes left behind. . . usually just small bruised spots to remind me of what a great time I had. Never, ever to the point of breaking the skin though. Thankfully, my boyfriend likes to bite so we're both happy!

And I'd be Abbey Spratt

Thanks for the advice, Kitty. Typically I usually do exactly that and have no problems. It usually becomes an issue when I'm tied up and cant control as much... which is fine, I like that. I've talked to my guy about it and he likes it when I gag, too and says it doesn't bother him if my nose runs. Personally, I find it just a bit embarrassing though. It is reassuring to know I'm not the only one who has a problem like this (sort of). I was hoping if someone knew if this might actually be the result of some sort of histamine response. A friend suggested that might be the case and taking an antihistamine would help. Never actually tried that as they all make me sleepy. And sleepy is not how you want to feel in these moments!

I think that maybe I have bit of an unusual problem. When I deep throat, I sometimes end up with a runny nose which doesn't exactly help set the mood. Or make it easy to breathe! Does anyone else have this problem? Any suggestions on how to stop it from happening. All feedback is appreciated!

This might sound odd, but I love a guy in shorts and a tee. There's something about watching a man showing off his stuff that is definitely drool-worthy. Track and field is the best sport ever! I simply melt watching the summer olympics! On another note, I like a guy in a nice suit too. Especially when you can undress him, leaving just the tie on. SEXY! Gives you something else to play while playing with your guy.

From my perspective, I do love getting titty fucked. I love watching my guy get his rocks off while straddling me. Being able to watch his face as he cums is such a turn on! As far as how often, it depends... this is an activity that we often engage in during "red week" so usually more than once that week for sure. Outside of that, maybe once every week or so.

I absolutely love to start out when by BF is still soft or just starting to get hard. I can then suck all of his cock and at least one of his balls into my mouth at the same time. He absolutely loves it and he gets rock hard super quick when I do this. Personally, I just love being able to take that much of him into my mouth and love the feeling of him getting harder and bigger as I suck him off. Another thing he just flips over is when I lick and suck the soft spot between his balls and his ass. A little tongue play along the rim will have him exploding every time.

My new boyfriend loves nipple play but I do not have sensitive nipples at all. Does anyone know of a way that I could increase my sensation levels so that I can more fully appreciate his attention?