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    wife has several that I use on her
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  1. We have three clubs near us and we go to two of them a few times a year. Not sure where you live but if you are by any metropolitan area I'm sure there is a club are two that would fit your needs or wants. There is a club I've heard of in Chicago where you have to send the admin's a full length picture of yourself and spouse so they can determine if you fit what they want at the club. My wife and I have never done that. Most clubs have some kind of "ambassador" that shows you around and explains the various rules for the club. I am surprised the club that you are talking about is non-girl on girl, that is usually ok.
  2. Some clubs will have several fitted sheets on the beds. When you are done simply pull the sheet off for the next couple to use. If she squirts alot I would recommend a towel or two. Some friends of ours have used puppy pads believe it or not...
  3. Two weekends ago my wife and I met with a couple we like in Chicago. We spent the night at their house and the wives had made some plans for all of us. We got to their house at about 4 pm and talked for a while. We decided to order dinner (sushi, one of my favorites) and play prior to going out for the evening. The ladies told me and the other husband they wanted a quickie so we didn't have to get them off...that would come later. Needless to say clothes were on the floor quickly and we got to some good sex. We were each on the bed and had some hot sweaty quickie sex. About a half hour later the door bell rings and the food was there. We ate quickly to make it to a show. The wives had found a show that does burlesque in Chicago. It was a Star Wars burlesque show. We got there just in time and had a blast watching it. After leaving there we went to a BDSM club. This club was so hidden you could drive by it a dozen times and never see it. You have to sign up to get sent the address. My wife and I have never been to a BDSM club and the other couple only once or twice. It was interesting to say the least. Lots of heavy duty furniture for tying someone down, or up as the case may be. There ws one woman with her hands hooked in some kind of overhead suspension device. She was naked and had clothes pins on her breasts while being spanked with a lether strap. Then her dom put clothes pins on her clit. The woman seemed really into it. While that was going on they had a registered nurse on scene who was intorducing people to what I believe is called "blood play". Surgical needles were being used on a womans breasts. Don't ask me about it; I am deathly afraid of needles and did not watch enough of it to determine what was going on. On another table a gentleman was using a hand held "tesla coil" to electrifiy a rope that had metal in it. The rope was on a woman who was laughing at the feeling. We stayed for two hours I think but just watched what was going on. My wife wants to get into the BDSM stuff and I am slowing her down as I like to take things slow. After leaving the club we went back to their place. We had a snack and then did something I have never done or seen. The other couple pulled some parafin candles and cheap hair mousse (I believe that is how you spell mousse ). We would spray the mousse onto each other in various patterns and then light it. Before anyone asks the other couple had seen this done at the club before trying it and we kept it away from any body hair. It was a weird feeling to say the least. We then dripped hot wax on each other. I really enjoyed that. A very intense burst of pain that spreads and diffuses quickly. Before you try it do some research to find what type of candles to use so you don't burn yourself. We used that stuff for a while just experimenting with it. The mousse on nipples seemed very pleasurable to my wife. We then had sex a few times before finally falling asleep at 4 in the morning. It was a great time. Boo
  4. I enjoy reading, mostly history and science fiction, although I am also getting into the zombie/post apocalyptic genre too. I play board games whenever I can and also like video games. I run and work out three or four times a week. I would like to get back into role playing games (no...just the normal dungeon and dragon kind, not the sexual kind) if I ever get the time too. Occasionally I draw, more like doodle, and I try to spend as much time with my wife and kids as possible. Boo
  5. Very hot and descriptive post Wendy! Sounds like you guys had a great time. Thank you for sharing it with us. Our last experience with our new couple was very fun too. They live in Chicago and invited us over for the evening. My wife and his wife went to the Lalapalooza concert that was going on while we stayed home and watched the olympics. They were gone for maybe 3 hours so we just relaxed and had a few beers. When they returned we all stayed in the living room; I gave the other wife a nice back rub (she likes it hard...) while he rubbed my wifes legs. We had some nice mood music on too. Soon we were on the couch making out; my wife was on a love seat making out with the other husband. I hiked her dress up and started kissing her chest while holding her arms above her head; I wanted her to squirm a little. After doing my best to tickle her I pulled her panties off and started slowly licking her pussy. (As a side note I really LOVE to lick pussy. She told me I do it very well because I know the "spot" to hit. It is always nice to know when someone thinks you are good in bed. ). While I was doing this my wife was enjoying sucking the other man. When the other wife came she needed to take a break so we went into to kitchen to have a snack. My wife continued on the couch with the other man. It is funny standing naked in someone else's kitchen with another guys wife while having a hard on. We soon moved to the bedroom. The other wife was giving me a great blowjob while my wife was fucking the other guy. The other wife then told me she wanted me to paint her. I kinda got a little lost then as I was trying to figure out what in the world she was talking about. Then she told me she wanted me to paint her with cum. LOL. Whew I thought she was going to break out some latex thing and I would have been completely out of my element. I started titty fucking her. My wife had cum already and they were watching us. Soon I exploded all over her chest and she rubbed it all over her body. Since then my wife and I occaisonally paint... It was a great weekend and we are seeing them this coming weekend. Apparently the two wives are preparing the entire weekend so it will be a surprise for me and the other husband. Boo
  6. I have been away from here for a while due to life and work. Since my last post we have met a new couple that we like very much. We have been with them three times now and it is always an enjoyable experience. The first time was at a local swingers club. They have a bondage and s&m room that you can reserve for an hour. We were the first couple to do so since we got to the club at about 8PM. My opinion about going to the club is play early and often if it all works out for everyone. Some of the couples at the club are there to drink and party but we want to play. So we met the couple and talked for a few minutes. My wife was wearing a nice sun dress and I was wearing what my wife calls my "nice package" jeans. The other woman was wearing a nice sun dress too. So we all go into the s&m room and start making out and striping. We tried out a couple of the different bondage toys but didn't really use any of them for any length of time. So we all got down on the bed. I ate the other woman to orgasm twice; giving oral is a very very hot sexual act in my opinion. When I can make a woman cum with my mouth and then as I continue she starts to laugh because she is so sensitive I know I am doing a good job. My wife is enjoying what the other man is doing to her also. The four of us then have sex for the rest of the hour that we have the room. Everyone got off at least once. We then went out into the club area and relaxed, listened to music, had a drink or two, and talked. An hour or so later we decide to go to the upstairs area and find a different location. This clubs has all kinds of hidden areas for you to play in. We find a semi-secluded room and start playing again. Throughout this people would wander in and look at us while we were playing. It was very hot although when someone would stick their face in a little too close we would ask them to back off... Other than that it was a great time and we have really enjoyed meeting this new couple. We have been with them twice since then and had good times all around. Those are stories for another day however... Boo
  7. I definately have the higher sex drive in the relationship. My wife and I have been together for over 20 years. We used to have sex all the time but then kids and work started getting in the way. Since July I have been put on a diet by my doctor and have lost weight and my sex drive has really kicked in. I literally want sex a few times a day. I believe it has to do with the amount of protein I eat every day. I easily masturbate twice a day and sometimes three or four times. The problem is I work an afternoon shift and my wife works in the morning. I start working when she is getting off work. It can be difficult to have good quality time for sex. On our days off we try to have sex as much as possible. What bothers me is when we are off together she and she is tired and not in the mood. If I am working on a Friday night she has no problem going out with her friends until midnight or later but if I am off and we stay home she is in bed by ten and wants to go to sleep. When I am off and she works I try to initiate sex as soon as she gets home and before our daughter gets home from school. I also try to initiate it if I am working in the afternoon and she is off by detting her going in the morning. What bothers me is when I want to take my time and enjoy the experience and she seems like she wants to get it over with. It really starts to bother me as we do not get a lot of time together. I want to enjoy her and the sex time we get. Boo
  8. Was it a natural progression? I don't really know, LOL. We started with some light spanking and have slowly worked our way up to using a paddle. I made my own flogger out of leather which she says she likes. We talked about it a lot to try to make sure we were both on the same page throughout. It is still weird for me as I am not a very dominating person in the bedroom; on the job is different as I have to be dominating at times. I am trying to be more dominating because she wants that but that does not make it any easier. Boo
  9. Well, I read a book on BDSM stuff that showed me the basics. I am certainly no expert on spanking. If you spank too high you could hit the tail bone or lower back area which can be painful and dangerous. Too low and you hit the backs of the thighs which can hurt. If she is enjoying what you are doing you are fine. If you start using a paddle or flogger I would read up on it and maybe watch some videos. On youtube there are several videos on how to spank/flogg someone. When I spank my wife I usually give her a good smack and then rub her cheeks, wait a few moments and do it again. I don't spank repeatedly over and over as that dulls the pain and allows her to get used to it. I want her to feel every smack. Also, I don't go for extended periods of time; I do a few smacks do something else for a while, a few more smacks, do something else, use the paddle, etc. There are some in the BDSM community (again only what I have read) who really into pain and want marks to be left on them by whoever is using the paddle/flogger/riding crop, etc. I want my wifes cheeks to be red but no bruising. She likes the pain but I dont want her bruised and battered from it. Boo
  10. My wife enjoys being spanked and likes to be dominated. She likes to be tied up and enjoys the feelings of the ropes on her wrists and legs. However, before I tried to really spank her I read up on how to do it. There is a difference between erotic spanking and corporeal punishment spanking. She does like it when I use a paddle on her or just my hand. There is nothing quite like when I am spanking her and she sucks in her breath after the smack and then I watch her cheeks turn red. Or when she is giving me head while I use a flogger on her bottom, makes her suck even harder. It can be a lot of fun. Boo
  11. Wendy, My apologies for not responding. I did not get an e-mail that anyone had posted in the thread and just happened to check it this morning. Your fantasy sounds very hot! Hopefully it will come true for you guys. And yes make sure you talk to your husband about everything. Good luck! My wife and I usually ask a couple if we have seen them a few times and nothing has happened if they just want to go out but no playing or are they just nervous, etc. We love having new friends, whether we play together or not, but just like to know what the other couple is looking for. Sunday, My wife and I have talked about Hedonism several times but just don't have the money to go. Maybe when my kids are finally out of the house we can go. Boo
  12. Well my wife and I had a pretty good weekend. We tried out the new club; the club has been around for years but we have never been there so it was new to us. We drove there with another couple. We were one of the first couples there and got a tour of the place. Needless to say the place is pretty big with lots of different rooms for play, including a bondage room. We then started talking and since we have not seen the couple for a while just chatted. I then suggested we go find some place to play upstairs. The four of us found a room with a large bed that also had a loft that was over our room. There was another couple up there so we had some background music. The other woman and I started on the bed while my wife pushed the other man up against the wall and started giving him a blow job. I was licking the other womans pussy. She is very vocal which is a turn on and completely cool there. We could hear a lot of people having sex in the place. After licking her pussy for a while she wanted me to fuck her. By this time my wife and the other man were on the bed next to us fucking. We got down to fucking and were pretty sweaty when we got done. I was having a little trouble cuming so my wife started pinching my nipples, which I really like, and I finished. All of us went back downstairs and had some food and drinks. My wife and I are actually very shy and the new place made us even more reserved so we did not meet anyone new. The couple we came with met another couple and decided to play. My wife and I decided to play alone so we found another secluded spot and had some fun. We then walked around the club and watched several couples having sex. Live porn is fun! It was a good weekend for us and we got to blow off some steam. Boo
  13. Yes, we are certainly hoping for a fun weekend. Work has been brutal for the last few weeks for my wife and I and we could use a little relaxation. BooBoo
  14. My apologies. I have not had much time lately due to work and one daughter being home from college on spring break. My wife and I have not had any chances to play either. My work schedule is terrible lately and I have not had too many weekends off. This coming weekend we have plans to go to a new swingers club (well...new for us as we have never been there). We invited two couples we are friends with and hopefully it will work out. If so I will have a story or two on Monday. I don't have HBO so I can't watch that show Swingers. Is it any good? I always think reality TV is not really reality. I too would like to hear what Flyme's fantasy is. It is always good to have inspiration...
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