I wasn't quite sure what forum this would go into, but here goes. I feel like, throughout my entire sexual life, that I've lacked imagination when it comes to any sexual play. I'd say I'm quite a sexual person but when it comes down to it, I blank and can't think of anything inventive to do rather than the generic stuff! My boyfriend is constantly asking what I want when we're intimate with each other and I don't know - this may be because I think I'm quite submissive and I enjoy it when he does what HE wants, but then again I worry that my lack of input may bother him in the long run. I also think my worrying comes into this - I find my mind racing with the wrong things sometimes, like "What happens if I don't come? He'll be so disappointed and think there's something wrong with him" rather than just getting in the moment and enjoying things. I'm still young, and I feel it's a hump I have to overcome or else the pleasure might slowly begin to get sucked out of sex D:! ... I know that's not exactly a question, but are there any thoughts or suggestions to help me loosen up, or get my imagination flowing, or just give me any sort of clarity about myself? Thank you *blushes*.