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  • Briefly Describe your last sexual encounter:
    Just got a couple new toys. Brought them home and tried them out rather than wait to go to bed when we were both tired.
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    5
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    Married
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    47 Male

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  1. It's been a while since I've posted. Working on comprehensive exams for school. Anyway a while back Cyndi and I were spending a weekend away and took several tooys along for the ride. We had her rabbit. Each of us took turns masturbating for the other and took video's on m digital camera. Then we watched the videos before making love. We both had huge orgasms while playing for the other. I don't know if it qualified as kinky, by some standards it wasn't but damn it was hot.
  2. I don't know about anyone else, but that's been my experience pretty much since the first time I masturbated to orgasm. It wouldn't say that it feels horribly painful, but it does ache. I seem to remember hearing that was normal when I was a kid. (back in the old days).
  3. wife, hottub, toys, lube, licking, sucking, fingering, fucking, cumming, all weekend long.
  4. Ashely Judd. No doubt in my mind. She just flat out gets me going. If Ashely Judd and Sam Elliot ever make a movie together my wife and I will never make it though the movie wthout jumping each other.
  5. Just about anything by Sade. Ordinary Love is very nice, but anything she sings will set the mood.
  6. Reading erotic stories or watching DVD's or movies on line. Usually erotic stories. If I have time and a quiet house I can read and play for several hours before finally cumming. I really try and go as long as possible just to enjoy the feeling of arrousal and getting close, then backing off and doing it again. Sometimes I use lube and sometimes toys, but usually not.
  7. The first time my wife and I did we were still dating. Neither of us had watched another person masturbate or had someone watch us. It was a huge turn on. We had a great time and speaking for myself I learned a lot about what she liked and how she likes to be touched. We still do have nights like this, or mornings. Sometimes with toys sometimes without toys. It's a still a lot of fun.
  8. That brought back a nice memory. My wife and I were visiting the town where we went to high school and were in a hot tub at the hotel. We were sitting across from each other in the hot tub, which was next to a pool full of people. I used my foot and big toe to rub her until she had an orgasm. She was trying very hard to be quiet. She was rubbing me with her foot and almost got me off, but we decided to wait until we went back to our room and I could cum inside of her. It was very hot. Needless to say we didn't get up right away to go to our room. As for the other question no I've never masturbated in front of a male friend or had oral sex with a male friend. My wife and I do occassionally masturbate in front of each other and it's usually very hot.
  9. Try having your wife run a lubricated finger around your anus, just lightly. It's not penetrationm but it is intense. Eventually you will want her to put her finger in. Once you get used to one finger you will find that two will be better. From there a small vibrator may be just the thing you want to try. Do not be surprised that once you go to a vibrator you do want to try something larger and eventually want your wife to use a strap on dildo. As others have said, you don't want to start there, but you can work your way up to it.
  10. I have experienced what would be considered multiple orgasms twice. Both times my wife as masturbating me. She had been playing with me and kept me arroused for a long time. She had taken me to the brink of orgasm twice, then would back off, let me relax and do it again. When she finally made me cum I felt the sensations of orgasm but did not ejaculate. I was still feeling the orgasm when she started stroking me again and I experienced a second orgasm and I ejaculated. We were both taken by surprise when we realized I hadn't ejaculated the first time. She really was surprised that she was able to make me cum twice like that. The second time it was not as surprising but still an amazing feeling. I wish I could tell you how it happened and what we did differently, but I have no idea and haven't been able to do it again. When I was a teenager and first started masturbating I developed the habit of holding the base of my penis very tightly putting an intense tension on the head of my penis as I orgasmed. That was how it always felt best to me. Once I started orgasming I didn't want to move my penis. Movement was actually too intense and I would not move as it was too much feeling for me. In the last year or so I have found that by continuing to move, especially in a rear entry position the pleasure increases and goes on for a longer time. It's not another orgasm, but it does increase the length of time that I experience the sensations of orgasm. I don't know if that answers any questions about multiple orgasms for men or not, but that is my experience.
  11. I just stumbled on this site yesterday after looking at sites that sell toys. We have been married 22 years, been together 22 and a half. Right now we are at a very stressful and sad time in our relationship. We have spent the last 9 months caring for our youngest son, (a twin) who was diagnosed with non hodgkins lymphoma in January. Needless to say that has been the overwhelmingly most important factor in our lives. He was doing well for a while however in May he relapsed. From that point on nothing the doctors tired worked and in August we were told that if the latest treatment didn't work there was not much more the doctors could do. We found out in early September that the treatment didn't work and the cancer had spread. We brought him home as he wished, and on October 3rd, the day before his 19th birthday he passed away. Needless to say my wife and I are both very devestated. We have however not made the mistake of pulling away from each other and are trying to focus on helping each other through this time. It may seem strange that we would be interested in sex after going through this, but being able to connect physically with each other and share our love has helped in some small way to deal with the pain that the death of a child has brought to us. I am looking forward to sharing others experiences as well as our own. Rod
  12. I would say that like a lot of men I've been very guilty of taking my wife for granted and getting hung up on the things that she doesn't do, (which are pretty minor) and not appreciating the things she does. She is a wonderful strong intellegent beautiful sexy woman who is an amazing lover. I sometimes try to push her to places that are outside of her comfort zone and rather than be satisified with what she is willing to share with me. It's rarely something physical, rather it's trying to get her to be more open about what she wants, what her fantasy's are, trying to get her to be more dominant at times in bed. I have finally begun to understand after 22 plus years of being together, that if I don't push, she will get to the point of telling me what she wants. She is not likely to become more dominant, that's just not her personality. I have to remember to appreciate her for all the things she does for me, emotionally, physically, spiritually and not get all hung up on the things I think are missing.
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