sweetnothings

Usually just a matter of minutes. I have tried long sessions with toys but I tend to like the "bang" I get from a quickie with my fingers and a little spit the best. I wish my husband would masturbate himself for me. It gets me so hot and bothered just thinking about watching him.

This could be it. I also have a tipped uterus. Even tampons only go so far and then they bend until I can find the correct angle. A doctor could tell you if you in fact have this. Rest assured though...my husband always seems to find his way in and 4 kids found their way out just fine. It also could be just you tensing your muscles up.

I honestly can't think of any one person that I want to do. I am also into hot, dirty and sweaty...but then again if he has a crooked grin, smiling eyes and a cock I am attracted to him. Ginger- I love your avatar. I am not really into tits but that is an awesome photo. It really "pulls" you in....very abstract. I love the roundness of the breast against the straight lines of the fishnet.

Thanks to all of you for the advice and the reassurance. I know in my head that I am making a mountain out of a mole hill...yet I can't help the uncomfortable feelings it gave me. I guess I am just being overly sensitive. I don't want, nor do I expect him to be superman or anything. Like someone said....if he is OK with it, then I should be also. I just needed reassurance that this does happen in good relationships and it is not because I done something "wrong". I wanted to make sure that I am doing my part in keeping an old relationship renewed. Thanks again.

I suppose my question is due to my own insecurities. My husband and I have been married for 17 years. We have a very good marriage and a decent sex life, it isn't mind blowing or anything. So anyhow I work evening shift and he works days (this is due to the kids schedules). Sometimes we go up to 4 days without having sex but most of the time we make up for it on my days off by having sex several different times in the day. Since I have been working eves I have noticed his sex drive going down hill. When I get home from work he is usually already sleeping. I don't usually bother him unless I am really horny. Last night I was horny so I got in bed and started licking and sucking on his balls. He rolled over to give me better access. He was already pretty erect. I sucked on his dick for a little bit and then I climbed on top of him which is pretty much the only way I have a g spot orgasm. Well I done my thing and achieved the pleasure that I had set out for. My legs were tired so I rolled over and let him on top. He pounded me but never did orgasm...he stopped and rested a bit and then went at it again. Still nothing so I put my legs over his shoulders which he usually really likes....still nothing. After awhile he just stopped told me that he loved me and went to sleep. This really bothers me when it happens. So I am wondering what would cause him to not orgasm? I know that if he has to pee he sometimes has troubles...he never got up to use the bathroom afterwards. Is it me? I know that I am an attractive woman but after 4 kids I am no longer the tiny thing that he married. I wouldn't and most others wouldn't consider me fat but I am "thicker" than he would like. Another thing is that when he can't get off it is usually when I initiate the sex. Since I am usually pretty submissive is he intimidated when I take control. If he initiates the sex and I climb on top he has no trouble getting off....usually before I am ready. He can cum in my mouth, from fucking my tits and sometimes in my hand so it isn't a health issue. So am I thinking about this too much? Am I just so used to him being a speed racer that when it takes longer it catches me off gaurd? I don't know but it really makes me not want to even start anything because I want him to finish. I am not sure why it is so important to me. He has no problem just rolling over when he is done. I have to "make" him give me some time when I feel like I want to acheive something.